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girlfriend cheated on me with best friend

I feel dead inside. Girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me with friend of 7 years. Im only 18. this has like wrecked my life completely. I have no where to turn for help. I just feel sick all the time and i feel so nervous around everyone. even my own familly. noone can be trusted.

Please help me.

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Reply 1

How do you mean 'cheated'? Did she actually have sex with him?

Reply 2

i dont no. he went round her house while i was on holiday this sunday, she wud of had people in the house so it couldnt of been sex but i dont no. how can i trust anyone ever again.

Reply 3

Err, how do you know anything actually happened?

Reply 4

i feel so sick i dont know what to do. please i just want to purge my memory of her.

Reply 5

Anonymous
i dont no. he went round her house while i was on holiday this sunday, she wud of had people in the house so it couldnt of been sex but i dont no. how can i trust anyone ever again.



Are you sure anything went on between them? :hugs:

Reply 6

You're 18 years old son; whole life ahead of you!

Reply 7

So she went round your mates house along with some other people...

You're paranoid by the sounds of it! :biggrin:

Reply 8

SiAz
So she went round your mates house along with some other people...


HE went round HER house alone. her familly would of been in the house. One of her friends sliped it into a conversation i was earwigging.

Reply 9

That doesn't mean she's cheated...
Do you actually have any proof?!

Reply 10

Aye, don't jump to conclusions mate otherwise you could end up losing the lass even though nothing happened.

Reply 11

I wouldn't get ahead of yourself, unless you're certain just calm down a bit :wink:

Reply 12

lol i sense paranoia :smile: (hope i spelt that right)

Reply 13

SiAz
So she went round your mates house along with some other people...



I'd fear the worst... If she's like any typical girl, she probably had a gang bang with all the people, it was filmed and the video is now on general release. :rolleyes:

Reply 14

why would he go round her house alone.why.

Reply 15

Anonymous
HE went round HER house alone. her familly would of been in the house. One of her friends sliped it into a conversation i was earwigging.


Her mate's not going to let that kind of thing slip.

Reply 16

Sticky
I'd fear the worst... If she's like any typical girl, she probably had a gang bang with all the people, it was filmed and the video is now on general release. :rolleyes:


you not reading the thread? i said he went round there alone. there was no1 there apart from him her and maybe her parents.

she told me nothing about him going round. and denied it when i asked ehr wat she had done 2day. even tho my mate told me he wen

Reply 17

King Hippo
Aye, don't jump to conclusions mate otherwise you could end up losing the lass even though nothing happened.


I really couldn't agree more.

There could be so many reasons why your best friend was at your girlfriend's house; for examples, two that popped into my head quite quickly:

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your best friend will no doubt know you just as well as your girlfriend does, if not more, so maybe she had something to ask him or talk to him about.

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again, they are two people who are no doubt very close to you, and although you may not like it, what's to say that they can't be friends also?



Unless you're keeping something to yourself and not telling us the whole story, I think I have to agree with other posters and say that I think you're just paranoid. Do you trust your best friend and your girlfriend? Deal with this situation with some tact, you don't want to risk messing up two completely happy relationships by being wrong and jumping into it without thinking.

Reply 18

Anonymous
why would he go round her house alone.why.


You're asking the wrong people, I'm afraid...

Reply 19

Anonymous
you not reading the thread? i said he went round there alone. there was no1 there apart from him her and maybe her parents.

she told me nothing about him going round. and denied it when i asked ehr wat she had done 2day. even tho my mate told me he wen


Maybe because she thought you'd react badly?