The Student Room Group
Reply 1
Aaw dont worry, sounds like you're majorly stressed! :hugs:
Just take a deep breath and try not to worry so much about everything..
Oh and good luck with the birth! :biggrin:
Reply 2
Maybe get your toddler sleeping in her toddler bed starting from tonight, so hopefully she'll be more used to it by the time the new baby comes along? Best of luck juggling all those tasks, but I'm sure you'll find ways round :smile:
Reply 3
Aww bless! Well it's probably just a bit of anxiety that everyone gets before any big change or event, and yours is a pretty massive event! Your mum will probably help you loads with the new baby and your daughter, I imagine? Tell her to get her act sorted out with moving house! Hope everything goes well :smile:
Ive heard that the best way to combat or avoid sibling jelousy is to include the other child with the birth process and care of the baby as much as possible. Like giving her simple tasks such as fetching a sponge when the baby is being bathed, or passing you lotions or creams during nappy changes. Apparently it makes them feel involved and asthough they are an important part of the babies life.
It sounds like a pretty good idea to me, although obviously I dont have any children so Im not sure how that would pan out in reality.

Good luck with everything, I hope you can get your house and everything else sorted in time for the babies arrival. I also hope the birth isnt too horrid.
First, congratulations on the new baby coming. And good luck with the birth!
As someone said above, maybe put your daughter in her own room from tonight on so she gets used to being in her own room and then when she becomes a big sister, just keep her involved in everything going on and make sure she doesn't feel excluded, which I'm sure you won't! If people bring presents for the new baby, then make sure you give something to your daughter as well so she doesn't feel like the new baby is getting all the attention that she's probably used to. I guess just make sure she feels involved as the big sister.
Sorry this is my best advice, don't have any kids so hard to put myself in that situation but I'm sure you'll manage really well.
Although moving house does make it even more chaotic of course!
Reply 6
my now ex sister inlaw brought my older niece a present of the baby, also including her with looking after her lil brother/sister like fetch a nappy ect, sleeping thing i dont know nieces were in there own room from when they slept through the night.

im sure you will cope heard girls are the worse and seems you have coped so far.

as for moving house i know the stress im still unpacking(9weeks later) just do bit by bit take out the stuff you need for yourself,hubby,and lil ones and do the rest when you or hubby have the time dont put to much stress on yourself

Goodluck with labor,moving house and the lil ones
Reply 7
Just wanted to pop my head round and say good luck with it all - sounds like stress central in there!
Agree with putting your daughter in the new bed as soon as possible so that she has time to get used to it, and making her feel involved.
Reply 8
to be honest, the way paternity leave is treated in this country sickens me. it would be seen as discriminatory if a woman was disadvantaged in obtaining a promotion in the same circumstances, yet they can do that to a man?!

a father's role is just as important to a new born baby - and for the mother's well being as well! i suggest you kick up a fuss about this and look into the legal implications - it seriously sounds like gender discrimination to me.
Have to agree with Grace. While i'm not one usually to get worked up at such things, that has annoyed me. Surely it's illegal for them to offer a promotion only if he doesn't take paternity leave? Sexual Discrimination if ever I saw it.
Reply 10
If your hubby is a member of a union I suggest he contacts them ASAP and finds out his rights!
grace
to be honest, the way paternity leave is treated in this country sickens me. it would be seen as discriminatory if a woman was disadvantaged in obtaining a promotion in the same circumstances, yet they can do that to a man?!

a father's role is just as important to a new born baby - and for the mother's well being as well! i suggest you kick up a fuss about this and look into the legal implications - it seriously sounds like gender discrimination to me.


Agreed it is disgusting, but I think taking legal action is the last thing on the OPs mind at the moment. In fact that is why it is so bad, because who in their right mind would take on their company at a stressful time like this? :s-smilie:

OP, best of luck. I'm certain that last minute jitters are perfectly normal. :smile:
Reply 12
Oo hope the baby puts in an appearance soon! :biggrin: I bet you must get really impatient the last few days wondering when he/she'll arrive! All the best!
Just wanted to say good luck :biggrin: