i dunt know why im so annoyed

me and my mate both went out with the same guy!!

and we all went out a few weeks ago (i didn't speak to the ex) but his other ex was all over him, i thought it was funny coz he looked like he didn't want to know.

she phoned me and told me he sayed he loves her and wants to get back with her!!

i don;t want him back and im not jelous but i feel really annoyed and i dunt know why!!!

Reply 1

.Adrian.

maybe some slight jealousy dont shoot me here just saying :P

Feel betrayed?

.Adrian.

maybe some slight jealousy dont shoot me here just saying :P

I agree with him sorry! To me it sounds like you're jealous but arent't willing to admit it. I'm sure over time you'll start to feel less annoyed and will realise you can find someone else. xx

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

OP

10

no thats fine maybe i am a tad jelous but its not like im going to fight her for him coz, well he is a useless excuse of a bloke, and wouldn't win boyfriend of the year anytime soon!!!

its just im going out with the same lot tomorrow night, ones a couple and what if they start acting all couply, im going to feel like a right lemon, i want to meet someone new but i don;t see how coz i feel abit ugly at the moment lol!!

(the ex wasn't sure who to sleep with me or her, so i turned round and said i dunt want to know) so that might have something to do with the fact he was all over her!! lol, some people never change!!
thanksxx

Reply 5

Anonymous #2

JayB124

Feel betrayed?

you've hit the nail on the head!!

Reply 6

Gilliwoo

Anonymous

me and my mate both went out with the same guy!!

and we all went out a few weeks ago (i didn't speak to the ex) but his other ex was all over him, i thought it was funny coz he looked like he didn't want to know.

she phoned me and told me he sayed he loves her and wants to get back with her!!

i don;t want him back and im not jelous but i feel really annoyed and i dunt know why!!!

You're annoyed. Because she's rubbing it in your face. On purpose. Nobody likes showy one upmanism.

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

OP

10

You're annoyed. Because she's rubbing it in your face. On purpose. Nobody likes showy one upmanism

actually i think you are spot on, i think she was going to half expect me to be all over him or he was expecting me to chase him, as in battling it out for the prize (being him) only i just couldn't be bothered i am worth more then that i deserve better then second best lol and i am no way fighting over a guy i dunt even like anymore!! i think from now on im going to be abit more careful of who i go out with!!! we slept together after we split, well i think i can safely say im not going to be going there again,

thank youxx

Reply 8

DodgyTrousers

7

and you didn't even consider the threesome?!

I jest :smile:

I agree, it's a pita, but the quicker you put it behind you the quicker you can move on and find something to make you happy. For all you know you could be mown over by a bus tommorow, so spend as much of your life being happy as you can. It's never worth dwelling.

i dunt know why im so annoyed

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