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    I kissed my now boyfriend for the first time last week and it was amazing every single time we kissed. I noticed it was very fast paced and later he said my kisses were very passionate, plus he said wasn't used to using tongue.

    Fast forward to this week, we kissed and it wasn't good at all. I stopped him and asked why it felt like we were out of sync, he said it didn't feel like to him. So we kissed again and I had to stop it again. It was really sloppy and he used too much tongue.

    I basically told him to slow down on the tongue, he confessed to never kissing with tongue before and he demonstrated how girls in the past have kissed him - it was simple lip locking (nothing wrong with that). He said i kiss like people do when they're making love and he liked it. He suggested we slowed it down and again it was really sloppy. I couldn't really find a pace that worked for us.

    I'm worried that this will be the case from now onwards. How can i make this situation work? Like i said the last time was great and now it's like he's going overboard with the tongue.
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    If you've kissed in the past and it's been great then you know the potential is there, so you're not doomed.
    I'd say right now he's trying to explore different things and trying to impress you. His confidence may also be a bit knocked from the critiquing
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I kissed my now boyfriend for the first time last week and it was amazing every single time we kissed. I noticed it was very fast paced and later he said my kisses were very passionate, plus he said wasn't used to using tongue.

    Fast forward to this week, we kissed and it wasn't good at all. I stopped him and asked why it felt like we were out of sync, he said it didn't feel like to him. So we kissed again and I had to stop it again. It was really sloppy and he used too much tongue.

    I basically told him to slow down on the tongue, he confessed to never kissing with tongue before and he demonstrated how girls in the past have kissed him - it was simple lip locking (nothing wrong with that). He said i kiss like people do when they're making love and he liked it. He suggested we slowed it down and again it was really sloppy. I couldn't really find a pace that worked for us.

    I'm worried that this will be the case from now onwards. How can i make this situation work? Like i said the last time was great and now it's like he's going overboard with the tongue.
    honestly nothing worse then having your face cleaning and them classing it as kissing!!
    also using no tongue is just weird, iv tried and i cant do it, my tongue wont allow it
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    You've been kissing for what, two weeks? Give it time. Sometimes it takes awhile to adjust to a different way of showing affection.

    Just teach him, and be patient.
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    (Original post by shawtyb)
    honestly nothing worse then having your face cleaning and them classing it as kissing!!
    also using no tongue is just weird, iv tried and i cant do it, my tongue wont allow it
    Me and my partner are the oposite we have never kissed with tongue we try every now and a gain just to gross each other out
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    (Original post by CrazyKittenLady)
    Me and my partner are the oposite we have never kissed with tongue we try every now and a gain just to gross each other out
    how odd. its weird without the tongue
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    (Original post by shawtyb)
    how odd. its weird without the tongue
    I find it weird with the tongue. Its strange how different people have such difference preferences x
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    (Original post by CrazyKittenLady)
    I find it weird with the tongue. Its strange how different people have such difference preferences x
    its like i cant stand kissing with eyes open, its just weird and awkward
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    (Original post by shawtyb)
    its like i cant stand kissing with eyes open, its just weird and awkward
    Yeah neither do i i find it really creepy haha, omg i was in sainsburys yesterday and there was a couple in there in the middle of the isle snogging for like 5 mins straight it was really funny watching people awkwardly trying to walk around them :P
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    (Original post by CrazyKittenLady)
    Yeah neither do i i find it really creepy haha, omg i was in sainsburys yesterday and there was a couple in there in the middle of the isle snogging for like 5 mins straight it was really funny watching people awkwardly trying to walk around them :P
    id cringe
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    (Original post by shawtyb)
    id cringe
    I did
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    Imagine the analysis when you two actually bang.

    Please report back to us, it will make for a good reading.
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    Imagine the analysis when you two actually bang.

    Please report back to us, it will make for a good reading.
    I don't know if this is a good or bad thing
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    I don't know if this is a good or bad thing
    You know what, neither do I.

    You know what, yes I do.

    It's a bad thing. You're obviously not compatible. But you'll do it anyway
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    (Original post by RooshV)
    You know what, neither do I.

    You know what, yes I do.

    It's a bad thing. You're obviously not compatible. But you'll do it anyway
    That's my only worry right now. Since they evening I'm thinking are we even compatiable
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    Just relax both of you. Your thinking too much about it.

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