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    Is it unusual? I've never really liked going "down" on my girlfriend, it's just not something I enjoy. I prefer just straight penetration, i'm not really into oral sex. It bothers me sometimes because I feel it something I should be doing. Am I in the minority?
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    Most of my mates do.
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    My boyfriend has never gone down on me, he says he doesn't want to.

    I don't think its that unusual.
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    My boyfriend's quite keen on it, does it without me hinting or whatever and enjoys it. I think that its part of a well-rounded sex life.

    But conversations with girl-friends suggest that he is a minority. With most of my friends' boyfriends, it sounds like they do it when pressured or because they feel they have to.
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    Any fella I've been with has been dying to do it but hasn't for whatever reason. Which is a shame because, for some reason, it doesn't do an awful lot for me.
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    My boyfriend does it without any hints or anything and he insists on doing it. Most of my girl mates bfs are the same and most of my male mates do it willingly.
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    To be honest, I've never been with a guy who has had any problem with it. And I think if I did, I would be slightly irritated. A little irrational perhaps, but I would.
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    most of the guys i've spoken to hate the idea of it
    apparently because blood and all sorts come out that end

    and i dont think they'd honestly say that to their girlfriends...
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    (Original post by paperclip)
    most of the guys i've spoken to hate the idea of it
    apparently because blood and all sorts come out that end

    and i dont think they'd honestly say that to their girlfriends...

    : o ..good lord 'blood and all sorts'...cant have anything like that ..give me urine and semen anyday (!)
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    My ex was mad about it, even used to nag me about, not that i minded in the slightest..

    Dont think my current bf's into it as much, he says he enjoys it though.

    Its just preference some people are more squemish than others, just like some girls dont like giving head.

    You should only do it if you want to not if you feel you have to, it'll make it less enjoyable for both parties.
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    I get the idea oral for both sexes can seem a bit 'forced', like the situation forces it! But some people explicitly enjoy giving it!
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    prefer it more than the actual sex myself.

    hate receiving it though. doesn't do anything for me at all.

    typical me being odd
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    It's not abnormal. If you don't fancy it, then you're entirely within your own right to say no to it. Don't feel pressured by society, or by your partner. It's your choice.
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    (Original post by paperclip)
    most of the guys i've spoken to hate the idea of it
    apparently because blood and all sorts come out that end

    and i dont think they'd honestly say that to their girlfriends...
    Yeah like BABIES. What happens if a BABY comes out while you're down there?
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    Yeah like BABIES. What happens if a BABY comes out while you're down there?
    Hahah! lol

    If a guy doesn't like it then they shouldn't expect their girlfriend to do the same for them. Most girls I know wouldn't say oral is their favourite thing to do, but girls seem to be expected to do it...
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    (Original post by paperclip)
    most of the guys i've spoken to hate the idea of it
    apparently because blood and all sorts come out that end

    and i dont think they'd honestly say that to their girlfriends...
    :toofunny:
    lmfao
    I have 'all sorts' coming out of me all the time, it aint pretty :rolleyes:
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    most of the guys i've spoken to hate the idea of it
    apparently because blood and all sorts come out that end
    licorice allsorts?

    I like it, there's nothing hornier than making your woman thrash about!

    Obviously, I keep a net handy in case a DOUBLE DECKER BUS should happen to fly out!
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    Ditto, its a turn on to give a girl good oral
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    (Original post by paperclip)
    most of the guys i've spoken to hate the idea of it
    apparently because blood and all sorts come out that end

    and i dont think they'd honestly say that to their girlfriends...
    pansies.

    i've done it to a girl when she's had her monthly exit. blood just tastes like egg to me.
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    I enjoy it
 
 
 
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