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    hi,

    just wonder whether any girls have ever asked a guy out - is this even heard of? If not how are shy guys like me meant to date ladies if people like me don't have the courage to ask out a girl/lady? Is internet dating the way forward - i.e. cyber ask someone out? if so isn't that just 'sad'. Dilemas dilemas *sighs*

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    I think its hot when a girls asks a guy out.
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    yeah JayB lol
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    (Original post by JayB124)
    I think its hot when a girls asks a guy out.
    ever been asked out by a lady then?:P
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    I Have :cool: Best feeling ever!

    Edit: Especially when you liked her for god knows how long
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    I'd rather the guy asked me out because i'm scared of rejection, i did hint to a guy a while ago i wanted to go out with him and then the confirmation of going out was kind of a mutual thing. how confusing.
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    Yep, I asked my current boyfriend out. He's so damn shy he would never have done it. So I did.
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    I've never asked a guy out, i do hint like crazy though, and am quite forward so there's not much room for confusion.

    I did once say "well are you going to ask me out then ?" once, which might count i suppose.
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    I've been asked out by girls a few of times and I rejected them all. I never expected them to ask and I didn't really consider any of them to be my type of girl, even though they all had average-good looks.

    ... but yeah, for all you single, shy, guys out there, there is hope because there are girls out there that will ask you out, especially if they think you won't ask them out (like in my case).
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    Most of my lovelife (until recently) has been from being approached myself.
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    how do shy guys date ladies ................. luck

    seriously though, you gotta get over the shyness and just ask em if you're interested. its not easy but it does get easier the more people you ask out

    plus, if you like someone, you can't just wait for them to ask you out
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    (Original post by Lucy May)
    I've never asked a guy out, i do hint like crazy though, and am quite forward so there's not much room for confusion.

    I did once say "well are you going to ask me out then ?" once, which might count i suppose.
    If you say that we might begin to think you want us to ask you out. Anything less and we would be unsure. Seriously - we are that dumb.
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    (Original post by JayB124)
    If you say that we might begin to think you want us to ask you out. Anything less and we would be unsure. Seriously - we are that dumb.
    haha yeah there is that myth that guys cant take a hint, but tbh us girls can be just as bad :rolleyes:
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    haha yeah :P .. its funny how the biggest hints we wont get sometimes..

    or maybe thats just me *rolls eyes*
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    lol lucy may.. i didnt read your post..but started in the exact same way
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    happened to me last night. I'd been chatting to her for ages and after a while she said 'you look like a rabbit in the headlights' and I wasnt having that, so moved in. This thread is quite freaky actually coz im a pretty shy guy i just asked her to dinner over email (said yes, woho!) It doesnt happen that often though, i think it only did in this case coz shes older. Im clearly bad at taking hints, it took a near insult to get me on track.

    I agree with always high, I was just lucky.
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    I've never asked a guy out, but I have seen someone I liked the look of in a coffee shop, and proceeded to track them down on myspace!! We're chatting online and txting each other and it's going really well!!
    He was dead impressed that I'd managed to find him online, just by seeing him in a coffee shop lol. It's the most 'ballsy' thing I've ever done lol.
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    That’s a good effort. Are you Sherlock Holmes great granddaughter or something? That’s some serious detective work.
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    (Original post by Consie)
    That’s a good effort. Are you Sherlock Holmes great granddaughter or something? That’s some serious detective work.
    Hehe, nope, no relation!! I just saw him and thought to myself 'I've GOT to know who he is'. He's gorgeous :suith: I knew from the way he looked that he'd have a myspace and so I went there and typed 'starbucks' and the place it was and found someone who worked there - looked at their friend's list and voila... he was there!!! *Swooon* lol
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    Thats incredible. Ive never found anyone other than than a sportsman/celebrity/politican on the net, even when the person gives me their name.
 
 
 
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