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    Short background: i haven't joined any social clubs and it's hard to meet people in my area.

    I've started talking to one girl online who is really nice. We have a lot of things in common and it's easy to talk to her, but she's not my type. Plus she only has one photo. I'm sure she's real so it's probably a self conscious thing, but it just adds to my hesitance because I don't think I'll be attracted to her. I could meet her and say lets be friends if it turns out that way I guess...

    I have a specific type too, so realistically if i keep waiting for the right person it could be forever.

    Attraction is important to me because I've had a lot of asexuality thoughts in the past and I can't sleep with someone I'm not into.

    But she's nice and I don't normally have things in common with others, so is it worth meeting? Does anyone have any tips for if it doesn't go well?


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    Maybe ask to share some more photos? Get a feel for her better. Might be a bit awkward but just explain that you've only seen one so you want to make sure it's her.

    If it doesn't go well, just cut her loose after the meet-up. It doesn't have to be complicated.
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    (Original post by snowystarks)
    Short background: i haven't joined any social clubs and it's hard to meet people in my area.

    I've started talking to one girl online who is really nice. We have a lot of things in common and it's easy to talk to her, but she's not my type. Plus she only has one photo. I'm sure she's real so it's probably a self conscious thing, but it just adds to my hesitance because I don't think I'll be attracted to her. I could meet her and say lets be friends if it turns out that way I guess...

    I have a specific type too, so realistically if i keep waiting for the right person it could be forever.

    Attraction is important to me because I've had a lot of asexuality thoughts in the past and I can't sleep with someone I'm not into.

    But she's nice and I don't normally have things in common with others, so is it worth meeting? Does anyone have any tips for if it doesn't go well?


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    What's your type and what is she like?
    Get her snapchat that way you'll get a better idea of how she looks before you meet in person
 
 
 
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