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What should I say to ask her out?
Im from manchester. She is an international student from Malawii.
We got on so well. Clubbing, at the bar, in my car. She always smiled and laughed, she even hit me - not hard.
In class, I actually fancied her like everyone else in the class. But she always kept saying aloud and making suggestions or trying to make conversation with me.
Oh my! The first three weeks she sat infront of me in the lectures - everytime and there is like so many other seats to sit.
Since emailing/texting her has stopped - it made me realise how much I want someone in my life. She always made me feel confident and appreciated - Ive never had such a fit ass girl - putting it straight - play so much attention.
She emailed me yesterday from malawii.
We meet in september. I want to ask her out, I want to be with her. What must I say and how - never done this before.
I must reiterate the importance of advice I need here. Most girls talk to me because of what they have heard about my car etc, or because for work. The first ever week, she spoke loudly when I entered a lecture late, and said "Hey! I never see you about - how come?" smiling. And before she was talking to her friends - and stopped to say that to me - a morning stoner and bad hang over.
I need advice.
Khaleel
We got on so well. Clubbing, at the bar, in my car. She always smiled and laughed, she even hit me - not hard.
In class, I actually fancied her like everyone else in the class. But she always kept saying aloud and making suggestions or trying to make conversation with me.
Oh my! The first three weeks she sat infront of me in the lectures - everytime and there is like so many other seats to sit.
Since emailing/texting her has stopped - it made me realise how much I want someone in my life. She always made me feel confident and appreciated - Ive never had such a fit ass girl - putting it straight - play so much attention.
She emailed me yesterday from malawii.
We meet in september. I want to ask her out, I want to be with her. What must I say and how - never done this before.
I must reiterate the importance of advice I need here. Most girls talk to me because of what they have heard about my car etc, or because for work. The first ever week, she spoke loudly when I entered a lecture late, and said "Hey! I never see you about - how come?" smiling. And before she was talking to her friends - and stopped to say that to me - a morning stoner and bad hang over.
I need advice.
Khaleel
"Do you want to go for a drink some time?"
do north west people ever sleep?
*is up in wallasey right now*
Errm, first of all find out if she is actually single.
If not then errm just ask her out somewhere just you two sometime! Perhaps the cinema and start to build something up like that! You could go for the direct approach and ask her out right now, but if she sees that your paying attention to her more she's going to be more inclined to say yes.
*is up in wallasey right now*Errm, first of all find out if she is actually single.
If not then errm just ask her out somewhere just you two sometime! Perhaps the cinema and start to build something up like that! You could go for the direct approach and ask her out right now, but if she sees that your paying attention to her more she's going to be more inclined to say yes.
well when icame to making my gf and i "offical" i was bamboosled.
all her friends we like "ask her out" so we went to the cinema ( we'd been pujlling by this time, at a club once and then at cinema) and i just came out and said
" Alright, so i dont exactly know how this works, but my mates and so have yours have told me to say a bunch of different things, and i don't know which is best so ill say them all...Wanna go out with me? wanna be me gf? wanna make this official?"
granted time stopped for about 100000000 days (2 secs) but she said yes, and even now we still laugh about it and she says it was the best way anyone has asked her out, parrently it was just really strange and memorable. so i dunno if that helps but its worth a shot tbh...
all her friends we like "ask her out" so we went to the cinema ( we'd been pujlling by this time, at a club once and then at cinema) and i just came out and said
" Alright, so i dont exactly know how this works, but my mates and so have yours have told me to say a bunch of different things, and i don't know which is best so ill say them all...Wanna go out with me? wanna be me gf? wanna make this official?"
granted time stopped for about 100000000 days (2 secs) but she said yes, and even now we still laugh about it and she says it was the best way anyone has asked her out, parrently it was just really strange and memorable. so i dunno if that helps but its worth a shot tbh...
Hey!
Thankyou everyone for replying.
You missed several points in my post I though I should reiterate.
I have been to Tiger Tiger (bar)with her before, we have been into town together twice, and the amount of times she has been in the library with me are endless.
I ignore usual signals of girls twiddling their hair, smiling, eye contact and touching - touching is the only thing that I personally believe is a sign of attraction.
I tried ringing her this morning, no luck because her phone is not working. So I decided to buy a phone card, emailed her to ask her if its ok to ring her because I have a phone card.
I will wait anxiously, for a reply.
From everything her friends have said, she likes me alot. And from everything my friends have said, she fancys me alot. Im still not coming to terms with this, I have always had a shallow minded view on everything really. How can she like me? Its like she is a different league:
Angelina Jolie getting married to Tyron from Coronation Street.
Thanks again for replies.
I will speak to her either today or tomorrow hoping to say something cunning and witty so she laughs and I can ask her out. I will admit though, I am very intimidated by her, as friends we get on so well, but still she is just so beautiful. She also got 63% in our first year!
People say we are both shy and we both know we like each other but we both just do not say anything.
To say the least (I post way to much information) I would give anything to for her to punch me again
Thankyou everyone for replying.
You missed several points in my post I though I should reiterate.
I have been to Tiger Tiger (bar)with her before, we have been into town together twice, and the amount of times she has been in the library with me are endless.
I ignore usual signals of girls twiddling their hair, smiling, eye contact and touching - touching is the only thing that I personally believe is a sign of attraction.
I tried ringing her this morning, no luck because her phone is not working. So I decided to buy a phone card, emailed her to ask her if its ok to ring her because I have a phone card.
I will wait anxiously, for a reply.
From everything her friends have said, she likes me alot. And from everything my friends have said, she fancys me alot. Im still not coming to terms with this, I have always had a shallow minded view on everything really. How can she like me? Its like she is a different league:
Angelina Jolie getting married to Tyron from Coronation Street.
Thanks again for replies.
I will speak to her either today or tomorrow hoping to say something cunning and witty so she laughs and I can ask her out. I will admit though, I am very intimidated by her, as friends we get on so well, but still she is just so beautiful. She also got 63% in our first year!
People say we are both shy and we both know we like each other but we both just do not say anything.
To say the least (I post way to much information) I would give anything to for her to punch me again
'let me take you out to dinner'
This was like my (meant to be) first kiss as a youngin except it was the opposite outcome. I turned up with some of my homeboys and she did with some of her girlfriends and i went over and was like 'so, do you want to do what we're here to do?' and she looked at the floor and started crying. Pure awkward. She wanted to kiss but was too scared. 1 year later i got with her and was then with her for the next 3. Crazy.
Alright, so i dont exactly know how this works, but my mates and so have yours have told me to say a bunch of different things, and i don't know which is best so ill say them all...Wanna go out with me? wanna be me gf? wanna make this official?"
granted time stopped for about 100000000 days (2 secs) but she said yes, and even now we still laugh about it and she says it was the best way anyone has asked her out, parrently it was just really strange and memorable. so i dunno if that helps but its worth a shot tbh...
granted time stopped for about 100000000 days (2 secs) but she said yes, and even now we still laugh about it and she says it was the best way anyone has asked her out, parrently it was just really strange and memorable. so i dunno if that helps but its worth a shot tbh...
This was like my (meant to be) first kiss as a youngin except it was the opposite outcome. I turned up with some of my homeboys and she did with some of her girlfriends and i went over and was like 'so, do you want to do what we're here to do?' and she looked at the floor and started crying. Pure awkward. She wanted to kiss but was too scared. 1 year later i got with her and was then with her for the next 3. Crazy.
You should ask her out on a date, but not some overly cliched date like cinema or even a meal - think of something you know she likes and make it something special. There's only one solution mate; "Fancy coming <insert place>" / "I was wondering, will you come with me to <insert place>" etc.
But seriously, make it something special and different.
But seriously, make it something special and different.
no, dont have any of this 'i was wondering' its got to be straight 'let me take out out to dinner', makes it harder for them to say no. Nothing wrong with a meal, or even going for some drinks. Its all cliched, but cliches dont matter in this context, getting to know the girl is all that matters. If you need to find a great place to have a date, your clearly boring given the focus of it should be the two people, not where you are/what you're doing.
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