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Reply 1

Yeh, sounds like its going alright.

Token present is more than fine - esp as he seems v. interested.

Reply 2

Maybe he was nervous? :s-smilie: Why didn't you go to kiss him? Sounds like he's making all the effort.

Reply 3

maybe he is shy

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Reply 5

SianyLou
I didn't go to kiss him because he didn't give me any signals that it was what he wanted!! He's a doctor and at the moment working about 65-70hrs a week...is it doable?

[sarcasm] No, that's why all doctors are single. [/sarcasm]

Did you "give him any signals" that you wanted him to kiss you? :rolleyes: You don't always have to wait for him to do stuff. If you want to kiss him, go ahead and try it, and if he doesn't want it he'll back off. And even that doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't like you, just that you're going too fast for him. I don't really see the problem. :s-smilie: He seems fairly interested in you.

Reply 6

Stop reading so much into things. He's now kissed you and shows that he's very interested, so who cares why he didn't make a move on the first date? Perhaps he was hoping to wait and see back then.

Yes, buying a present for a birthday is fine. You would buy friends birthday presents, so why not a guy you've pulled? He isn't gonna text you saying that he thinks of you all the time and the next back off and say "Whoa you're giving me a... birthday present!? WHOA this relationship needs to slow WAY down!"

Seriously, just relax, and enjoy :smile:

Reply 7

As long as the gift isn't a ring engraved with the message "I will love you always", I think you'll be fine.

Reply 8

Cheers guys. I'm not usually so *odd* about things, but he seems to have really got to me (in a good way). Thanks though.

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Reply 10

That's a pretty cool present, actually. Lol.

Reply 11

Yeah I agree that sounds like a fab present, where did you find it? I have lots of junior doctor friends who would like it too!

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Reply 13

Lots of people don't on the first date. Sounds like it's going very well to me.

Reply 14

Good job he's not training to become a gynaecologist.