I was talking to a male friend the other day on chat. I've always seen him as a brother from another mother type. AND he has a girlfriend. Anyway, during this chat, he asked me if I wanted to know a secret. Of course I said yes, having no idea what he was going to say. Then he said that he's thought about me while masturbating, on a number of occasions. Then he basically said that he was touching himself as we were speaking. I asked him if he was joking because I honestly thought that he was. And he said he'd said me a photo or video call me to prove it. Obviously, this was a situation that I did not want to see so I just said I believed him. Then I tried to light-heartedly drop the fact that he shouldn't video girls when he has a girlfriend. He told me something like "of course not but we're friends and I trust you. Obviously nothing's going to happen." Like tf??Then he tried to video call me anyway and I just sat there and didn't answer so he ended the call. He said sorry and then the conversation just carried on as normal. I genuinely feel like he didn't see anything wrong with what he did. He was so laid back about it.
Maybe I'm a little bit naïve when it comes to relationships and sex talk. I've never had sex or anything like that due to religious reasons and I've only kissed one person. I mean, I understand cultural differences when it comes to things like this but, surely, it's not normal for men to admit things like that when they're in a relationship. Even if he didn't have a girlfriend, I wouldn't have been happy about it. I can't explain but I almost felt a little upset. I don't get why he would bother to tell me this stuff? Did he think I would just go along with it or that it wouldn't bother me? It felt like something so seedy. Why would he even think of sending e pictures to me? I've never given him that impression. I was even talking to him about the guy that I like. I'm confused...