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    If so why?
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    of course not!
    why such stupid question?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    If so why?
    No. It's actually a turn ON as IMO I (the guy) would want to be the girl's first.
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    Quite the opposite as you get to break the seal yourself :sexface:
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    Many women expect the man to do all the work, so practically speaking you're no different from the rest of the women who just lie there like a corpse. So it'd only be a turn-off if the guy actually wants an exciting sex life. Still, you learn the ropes as you go along; sex is largely one of those "learn by doing" exercises.

    Though most guys seem to have this things about being a girls' "first", so you got that going for you.
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    No, stop posting stupid threads.
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    I don't think it's a stupid question. Plenty of guys have different views on the matter.

    For me personally, I've noticed that the older I'v gotten the more the thought of dating a virgin is a real turn off. (I'm 20 years old) Not necessarily a deal-breaker but one that would definitely make me think twice about having sex with someone. I'm not interested in the pressure of being someone's "first time", its not something that appeals to me. Also I'm just generally way more attracted to girls who have at least some experience and know what they like/want, even if they've only had sex once or twice. The knowledge that I'm having sex with someone who isn't completely new to sex just makes everything a lot more relaxed and enjoyable because there's less pressure etc.

    None of that would matter to me if I was actually dating someone I really liked and they were a virgin, it's just not something that inherently appeals to me.
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    Not a turn off so much as an added complication. Why? Breaking a girl in is no easy business, esp. when you're not so small :innocent:
 
 
 
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