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    I was texting my ex a few days back, and she mentioned she couldnt sleep. When I asked why, she said she didnt know, so i suggested maybe she was hot...her reply was "of course im hot lol but thats not why i cant sleep"...now I'm having trouble deciding whether she's trying to flirt here or not? is she?
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    maybe she was just hot because the weather was hot?

    i don't think it was flirting, or if it was, it wasn't very obvious.
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    That's not really flirting.

    Are you interested in her again? Cause that could be why you're reading way too much into this.
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    Hmm I'd disagree. I reckon that sounds like flirting to me.
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    I'd interpret that as playfully flirtatious; possibly an attempt to imply her emotions, rather than state them explicitly
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    Try asking why.
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    It sounds like joking between friends to me. We say stuff like that all the time and it doesn't really mean anything.

    I guess it depends on what kind of person she is: is it normal for her to say stuff like that, OP?
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    I don't think it was flirtatious. A flirtier version might be 'I'd be hotter if...'
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    i think she was trying to flirt or maybe she's just full of herself.

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    you were flirting.
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    joking round most likely..
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    I think you are reading far too much into it.
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    (Original post by HenvY)
    you were flirting.
    I concur. You were the one to suggest it so why then perceive her answer as the possibilty of her flirting?
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    ha mate shes just joking round...but if she was flirting if u like went yer corsee hehe then she replied back like aww or sumet then she is flirting :P
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    She sounds like she's being playfully flirtatious, but that doesn't have to mean she fancies you again. She could be a naturally flirty person and was just being playful/friendly.

    I gather you're still interested in her then?
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    I am still interested in her, very much so, and i was flirting, albeit in a fairly subtle way. Since then I've been texting her all evening, and still texting now...though we're still friends, could there not possibly be something still there? :rolleyes:
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    Possible, never say never an all that, but i wudnt get ur hopes up mate. Sounds to me like shes just bein friendly, an since u want her to be interested in you again your just seeing what you wanna see. No shame in it, we've all been there... but yeah, take it easy an dont get your hopes up wud be my advice. Good luck tho
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    You will only find out if you just ask her if she thinks anything is there still.
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    She could have been flirting subconciously. But, to be frank, I am a girl and can't fathom the way their brains work. Sorry.
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    (Original post by sugar-pie)
    That's not really flirting.

    Are you interested in her again? Cause that could be why you're reading way too much into this.
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