Frustration

Righteo, just needed to vent some fustration on relationships.

Well, my problem is that due to me not wanting the 'physical' side of a relationship I'm missing out on the emotional side that I desire. Meeting girls is an issue for me due to me liking my room (quite a bit actually) so when I do find one I "click" with I usually persue it. The last time that happened was actually pretty recent, I found the girl, got her email/myspace, msn and then finally her number. After which I decided I'd go in for the killer and started a conversation on relationships looking to ask her out after, but during the conversation I found out she wanted the physical side to feature prominently. Finding this out I asked her that if I was to ask her out would the physical side be a problem and she said sorta implied yes but half heartedly said no. Yay for that >.>! Been a week since that and we barely talk now.

And yes, I know, I want something without giving something but sigh.

Reply 1

Vohamanah

Can I ask why you don't want 'the physical side' to feature prominently? And your age? It might change our advice to you, is all.

Reply 2

dh00001

define physical side? do you mean purely sexual or :s-smilie:

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Well, I'm 18.. lol.

And erm, I don't want the sexual side as well.. I want to wait til marriage

Reply 4

dh00001

well theres no problem with that. there are others out there that feel the same.
theres no need to shy away from a relatioship purely because it may turn sexual, there can be much more to relationships.
try starting a relationship and going with it. but if they want to become sexualy involved explain your views to them. if they dont accept it; break it off and move on