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Me and my ex last night.....

Hi everyone.

ill try and explain this the best i can lol

Basically me and my ex have always been close after breaking up after a long term relationship. but over the last 2/3 mounths shes told me tht she just wanted to be friends and tht she didnt fancy me n e more and she didnt see me as much.

well shes gone away for 10 weeks to spain to work in here family restraunt. shes been out there for 5 weeks so far.

well heres the thing, when shes called me so far we have talked more more. then last night it all kicked off.

she rang me at 3.00 am, she had just cum back from the restraunt late where she had had quite a bit to drink after work with her family. we were just chatting and i was making her giggle and laugh lots. next thing i know she says "i miss u sooooooooooooooo much. its not fair."

then she sed "i wish that u cud be here". i assumed that she ment cos she missed hanging out. then she sed randomly "would you take advantage of me if u were here right now?" i sed "nooo tht wudnt be fair on u"

she then went "y not? i wish you would cos i would want u 2...cos i wana have sex with u right now"

the convo got more dirty and we ended up having phone sex and getting reli dirty. she then told me tht i was the only guy she ever wants and that she loves me so much and always has and tht she wants me to have sex with her when she gets home :eek:

she then went after just over an hour, telling me that she loved me.

she then txt me this morning saying "******. im so so so sorry bout last night. I didnt meen n e of it at all, I was just drunk. lets just forget about it ok. I didnt meen n e of it"

so what do u recon guys... Was the alchohol talking or did it make her come clean with me and now shes tryin to cover up? im just so confussed. :frown:

HELP

Reply 1

HereFishyFishy

Well, why would she need to 'cover it up?' She clearly knows you like her, and if she liked you too surely you'd be together?
I dunno, there's a possibility she still fancies you/wants you, but she obviously doesn't want a relationship with you right now.
Personally, I think that was bad behaviour on her part. It's not fair to do that. Yeah, she was drunk, but you should ask her not to call you in that state again.

Reply 2

Sticky

Your ex sounds quite a bit like a few girls I've known. Girls can get horny and let their desire take control of them.
For some reason your ex doesn't really fancy you that much or at least she doesn't think she does. I reckon it might be something to do with her friends: maybe she just doesn't feel like you're the guy she wants to be parading around?
Yet there's an attraction, especially emotional, that she has little control over.
Why did she ask you if you would take advantage of her? Because she knows her head is telling her she doesn't fancy you (or shouldn't?) but if you took advantage of her, then she would no longer have to think about it: you would make the decision for her and it would be her instinct that would take over.

If I were you, I would check why she doesn't seem to want to be with you... To be honest, I don't think you should get your hopes up. Girls can be cruel like this and it can make you feel like you're in with a chance when after all, it was just a moment during which she was feeling a bit horny and you were there. Of course, see what happens when she gets back but don't get your hopes up too high.

When a girl has made up her mind that she no longer fancies you... it can be a lot of work/virtually impossible to change that.

Reply 3

username47781

Sounds like a bit too much drink was to blame for this.

Reply 4

SuperhansFavouriteAlsatian

Leaaavvvveeee it!

Cereal.

Reply 5

jumpinglunch

You should of taken the first flight to Spain.

Reply 6

Chewwy

girls are like this. it is now your job to say "but you PROMISED to have sex with me". if you do really good puppy-dog eyes, she may take pity and **** you.