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what has happened?

net1989

okay so had an issue before with guys thinking they have a chance of getting between me and my boyfriend so ive shared this concern with my close friends.
but now one of my close guy mates who id shared this problem with srnt me a message at the weekend and now is being distant.
he was drunk and the message didnt say too much just said 'i bet ive woke u! just wanted to say hello n i think ur pretty and cool xx'
at first i was like oksay not again but then was like ah its nuthing he wouldnt do that but then again i thought that about the last guy! and my friend said that it might be going the same way. should i be worried?
cant let that happen again! caused some issues between me and my boyfriend but its sorted now (well mabi)
but now my friend is being distant and i worry! i miss our chats!
he's a great guy! all i hope is this isnt happening again :frown:

Reply 1

blackfish

by the sounds of what you are describing i think he may have fancied you and now you have crushed his feelings for you and he needs time to cool off just give it time... possibly alot of time

Reply 2

net1989

but i didnt crush them my response didnt even mention it. mind you we talked bout it later and laughed about it slightly saying that i knew he was drunk by his message!
i dunno i mean he's text me when he was once again out drinking!
but then i was out ( not having a brill time kinda dull, and thought he was out and we could meet up but he wasnt, wrong day) and he was like 'wish i could come out and meet you' and me being out drinking replied saying tis fine i'll just go to my boyfriends mabey and he didnt reply! i feel bad now!

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

i agree with blackfish but how long is enough time?
then again you could be reading into things and there was nothing meant by it only a friendly text. do you really want to make a big issue out of it?