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If he keeps staring at my breasts during conversation.
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The way he can't but stare, aghast, at the hairs protruding from my upper-lip.
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If he's pervy.
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allright then in terms of conversation.....what are the common boring attempts of conversation you do not like? or what do you like to talk about actually on the first date?
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I dont want to hear about his emotional baggage or politics.
i hate when theres the awkward silences:frown:
marson
allright then in terms of conversation.....what are the common boring attempts of conversation you do not like? or what do you like to talk about actually on the first date?

Anything you bloody want to from uni to the universe! Just let it flow and don't freak out over awkward silences, just laugh it off, move on.
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I do not want to hear about his ex. Especially if she's a psycho.
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If he's clingy, I lose all sense of politeness and will act like a complete bitch. I can't give examples of clinginess in speech.. hm..

Conversation wise, if he talks about breasts or says more than two words about anything to do with women he does/doesn't like, in the superficial sense (i.e. i hate fat women, i love beyonce, i had a girlfriend who's nose was too big once), urghhhh piss off. boring.

i like to go a little deep, lol. i like having an intellectual banter. or just getting to know him. i love hearing a few funny stories too.

just don't talk about breasts and you'll be fine :biggrin:
chan89
I do not want to hear about his ex. Especially if she's a psycho.

ah yeah, golden rule: never talk about past relationships!
ph9
Conversation wise, if he talks about breasts or says more than two words about anything to do with women he does/doesn't like, in the superficial sense (i.e. i hate fat women, i love beyonce, i had a girlfriend who's nose was too big once), urghhhh piss off. boring.

i like to go a little deep, lol. i like having an intellectual banter. or just getting to know him. i love hearing a few funny stories too.

just don't talk about breasts and you'll be fine :biggrin:


Agreed.

And if I barely know someone, coming onto me really strongly will actually just annoy me. There's nothing more offputting than realising someone is just after one thing. I know you're interested, it's why we're on a date, which coincidentally is for getting to know you as a person please :rolleyes:
Being stingy.


Seriously, pay for the first date. Call me old-fashioned, but it's nice to think a guy believes you're worth taking out.
Also, any hint of arrogance tends to put me off.
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bunthulhu

There's nothing more offputting than realising someone is just after one thing. I know you're interested, it's why we're on a date, which coincidentally is for getting to know you as a person please :rolleyes:


Exactly.

Laces, that's one thing I forgot to mention. I'm 100% on that
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Deffinately dont talk about past girlfriends! Big no-no it will piss her off big time she will want to know about you and not your ex'es. Dont talk about other women in general leave that topic out completely.

You shoul ask her questions but not just questions. Ask a question like "what kind of music do you like?" or "have you seen...(name of movie)..?" from one o these questions keep the topic flowing. Also dont expect her to just talk about herself. Boys always make that mistake. They keep asking questions wich she answers but they dont talk about their selfs. When a girl asks "why dont you tell me something about yourself?" or " you know lots about me and i dont know anything about you " the bloke ususlly replies " well what do you want to know." tip here: she wants to know about what you like, dont like, what you study basically everything but not necisarily about your family and upbringing just stuff that makes you you!

So avoid talking about other women- especially ex'es, talk about her but talk about yourself as well. Dont go through the whole date talking about yourself- you will sound big headed and dont just talk about her.

Find something you have in comman and flow....
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I don't think a man should feel obliged to pay for the date (though admittedly it's rather nice if he offers, I wouldn't get upset if he didn't). But don't talk about anything that's too profound or heavy - stick to light-hearted topics of conversation.
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Avaoid talking about the weather lol. i hate that. WHy when a bloke cant think of something to say they sa " the weathers good ain't it?"
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Laces
Being stingy.

Seriously, pay for the first date. Call me old-fashioned, but it's nice to think a guy believes you're worth taking out.
Also, any hint of arrogance tends to put me off.


God, I hate paying for it all. I'm not made of money - I live on a tight budget as it is. Why should girls get away scott-free and the guys have to pay for it all? What a bull**** concept.
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wow i thank you ladies for your willingness to provide this essential knowledge for all of us men and i thank god or whomever that there are women on this planet :dancing:
Or you've had a great evening, a lovely dinner, everything was going great. Chatting and laughing and then you head back to his place. Have a few more drinks, kiss, then he takes your hand and leads you upstairs, you undress and lie on the bed waiting, quivvering with anticipation. Then you see he has a tiny cock.