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Hypethectically speaking ...

If you slept with someone who was in a serious relationship would you feel guilty?
Me and a few friends were talking about this and they were quite shocked that I wouldn't feel guilty ...

Reply 1

Saffie

Hypothetically, not so much for my own actions. But I'd feel very sorry for the girl who was being cheated on.

Reply 2

Rutter knows best!

depends on how much respect you have for other human beings.

Reply 3

Haze1412

yes, i would - just because i would be devastated if it ever happened to me. wouldnt you? :confused:

shoe on the other foot kind of thing. :rolleyes:

Reply 4

ph9

i don't know...

if someone has it in them to cheat on their partner, it's not really the bit on the side's fault

Reply 5

Kate.

I wouldn't do it in the first place, knowingly, but I think I'd feel pretty guilty if I found out after that they had a girlfriend. I just don't think it's fair. I've never cheated or been cheated on and I'd be absolutely devasted if someone cheated on me. I wouldn't like to possibly help ruin someone elses relationship.

Reply 6

Goodkat

A bit ashamed to admit it, but no I wouldn't.

Reply 7

bunthulhu

Yes, which is part of the reason why I wouldn't do it in the first place.

Reply 8

Adhsur

I suppose if you are already knowingly doing it then it doesn't make sense to be guilty about it - if you were that guilty you wouldn't do it. And yes, anyone who does do it and doesn't feel guilty, I pity them and their lack of a concern for others.

Reply 9

stephanie2007

I would feel awful for the girl that i had hurt, if it was a serious relationship. I would feel guilty if i had knew before hand.

Reply 10

shaneo632

I'd feel bad, but if the girl was really hot I'd just go for it. If she came onto me and was average-looking I'd probably not go there.

Reply 11

devilgirl999

no unless i knew the guy and his other half, then i would be tempted to tell her that he propositioned me

Reply 12

D-503

I'd feel really bad if I knew the other guy, unless I didn't like him. If it was a randomer then wouldn't be too bothered, depending on how much you knew beforehand and who came on to whom.

Reply 13

bunthulhu

shaneo632

I'd feel bad, but if the girl was really hot I'd just go for it. If she came onto me and was average-looking I'd probably not go there.

Nice to see the moral compass going strong around here. :rolleyes:

Reply 14

transit

Speaking from experience, If I found out afterwards I'd stop, and I would feel guilty, but not too much as I had no idea. If I knew beforehand, I wouldn't do it in the first place, regardless if I knew the person involved or not.

I know people who wouldn't feel guilty at all, and I know quite a few that do. The former think that it's the cheater's fault and theirs alone, while the latter think it's almost(if not equally) as bad as cheating itself.

Reply 15

technik

kimble

If you slept with someone who was in a serious relationship would you feel guilty?
Me and a few friends were talking about this and they were quite shocked that I wouldn't feel guilty ...

no, as i would never do it in the first place.

hate cheats.

Reply 16

louisedotcom

Well hypothetically- (because I would never willingly sleep with someone who I knew to be in a relationship) Id feel guilty, because I would have participated in something that could potentially have broken someone elses heart, which could then lead to a whole range of other things.

But then again, If I was the kind of person who would gladly sleep with someone knowing they were in a relationship, I doubt id have much of a conscience and as such probably wouldnt feel guilty in the slightest.

Reply 17

hairy_scary

kimble

If you slept with someone who was in a serious relationship would you feel guilty?
Me and a few friends were talking about this and they were quite shocked that I wouldn't feel guilty ...

Now you sound like an ablsolutely cheap s***

Reply 18

*Katie*

I think I'd feel bad even if I didn't know that the guy was in a relationship. If I knew about it, I wouldn't do it. And I'd definitely feel guilty if I knowingly slept with him.

Not even a twinge of guilt, OP?

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