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    So basically me and my girlfriend had sex for months fine and had no issues (all was well), then a few weeks ago she slept round mine and we had sex 3 times in a row, by the 4th my guy was tired and I couldn't keep it up (obviously felt embarrassed) but ever since then I've been coming in like 20 seconds which I am embarrassed by when I used to last for like an hour if I wanted to, I don't know what's gone wrong but ever since that night we haven't had proper sex cos of me, anyone else had this or had any advice on how to fix it??? URGENT cos I'm about to leave for uni and want to leave her satisfied if you know what I mean
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    I've answered the main bit in the later version of this, so just addressing the last sentence..

    .. do you know that what she wants is an hour of penetration? If so, you have fingers and a variety of toys exist. In my experience, most women would rather be eaten for that long.
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    I don't know why someone thought it was a good idea to delete the other thread without copying the reply/replies to it, but...

    Stop putting pressure on yourself. Sex is not (or should not be) a performance. You've not had an erection after coming three times - many men would struggle getting another one a short time after coming once or twice - and are going 'Argh, I'm no longer a complete stud muffin'. This is affecting you.

    What's happened with your ability to tell that you're about to come? Is it still there when you masturbate?
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    I don't know why someone thought it was a good idea to delete the other thread without copying the reply/replies to it, but...

    Stop putting pressure on yourself. Sex is not (or should not be) a performance. You've not had an erection after coming three times - many men would struggle getting another one a short time after coming once or twice - and are going 'Argh, I'm no longer a complete stud muffin'. This is affecting you.

    What's happened with your ability to tell that you're about to come? Is it still there when you masturbate?
    I can still tell when I'm gonna come, i can control it when masturbating but when I'm with her i can't control it anymore
 
 
 
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