So I am 23(f) and I recently started dating this girl (25). Its been maybe 6 weeks, but from the get go she was super intense - constant texting, staying over three times a week etc. I really don't enjoy the sex because she will only do a very limited range of things and frankly has no concept of foreplay (which is ****ing insane for a lesbian but I digress). If I don't want to stay over or have sex she whinges at me.
I am moving abroad in two weeks time, my job is incredibly stressful and I am so so exhausted. I want to spend this remaining time when I'm here with my family and building up my energy for moving. I have tried responding to her texts less frequently and not committing to plans, but she is not taking the hint.
We are supposed to meet tomorrow which is supposed to end up with me staying over. I don't want to go all the way into the city to meet her, then brutally disappoint her if I break up with her when she was expecting a date. Considering all the time we've spent together - is breaking up by text or by phone or simply doing the slow fade completely monstrous?
New girl driving me crazy and I'm moving away - how do i make it stop? Watch
- Thread Starter
- 10-09-2016 00:26
- 10-09-2016 01:07
If this happened to me, I'd be absolutely gutted if my girlfriend broke up with me over text/faded away. Please tell her in person or it'll be so much harder.