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Penis Size Problem.

This is a serious non boastful topic inspired by the thread lower down. Me and My gf have been having "sex" for about 7 months now, usually its more foreplay oral and hand based. The problem is my penis is too big length wise, but more width wise for my gf. And i convinced her vagina is smaller than average. Anyway after months of it going up there it hurts her every time and has to be eased in slowly and moved slowly. It really ruins the mood in sex and I mostly avoid it to avoid causing her discomort although I do have my needs and full sex is one of them. Is there any way of her expanding a bit. To reiterate this isnt a joke topic.
Well im not sure if this is true but it i've been under the impression that the more you have sex the less painful it will become over time. However im not sure if this is correct. Also, try lots of foreplay beforehand as its also supposed to help. Hopefully this helped.

Have fun :smile:
Reply 2
Do you use lube? It helps a surprising amount usually.
you could try lube. definately makes it less painful. yoga and other various stretching techniques for the pelvic area are supposed to work too.
Reply 4
We've not tried lube, because shes always been completely ahem wet down there, also I thought it just makes getting it in easier not less painful, but i guess girls know better than me. Do vaginas expand a bit in time?
Reply 5
Anonymous
has to be eased in slowly and moved slowly.


Yes it's called having sex with a woman, outside of a porn film. Almost all girls I've been with have found it difficult at first until they're fully excited and in it.

As much as I'd like to believe it's not a joke thread, there's an incredibly high number of threads like this. Maybe some of you guys get off talking about your penis size because it's half an inch above average or whatever and you like being told how massive it is.

It's not rocket science and you just have to use the search function to see that it's just a matter of being gentle and first, remembering foreplay and using lube. It's not because we're talking about YOUR penis that it's going to be any different.
Reply 6
Can't be too big, a baby fits out of the vagina- so will your penis!
Bien
Can't be too big, a baby fits out of the vagina- so will your penis!



that is impressive stuff
Reply 8
Bien
Can't be too big, a baby fits out of the vagina- so will your penis!

As has been said in the similar thread today, this isn't really much help: http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showpost.php?p=9418934&postcount=7
Reply 9
unless his penis is bigger than a baby #zomg#


yes...she will expand in time.
Well they stretch. So use lube.
Sticky
Yes it's called having sex with a woman, outside of a porn film. Almost all girls I've been with have found it difficult at first until they're fully excited and in it.

As much as I'd like to believe it's not a joke thread, there's an incredibly high number of threads like this. Maybe some of you guys get off talking about your penis size because it's half an inch above average or whatever and you like being told how massive it is.

It's not rocket science and you just have to use the search function to see that it's just a matter of being gentle and first, remembering foreplay and using lube. It's not because we're talking about YOUR penis that it's going to be any different.


lol
Reply 12
fat_hobbit
lol


this "isnt a joke topic" remember. lol. :biggrin:
Reply 13
You could ask for advice at the Large Penis Support Group.

www.lpsg.org/

Hope that helps!
Bien
Can't be too big, a baby fits out of the vagina- so will your penis!

Acutally a woman's vagina expends just before she gives birth. It was in a sex education vid that was shown in school when I was 9.

I'm getting kind of sick of all these "oh it was too painful for me/her" threads also. They either never heard of foreplay or want attention.
Reply 15
What you will find is that if she is expecting sex to hurt then she will be tensing her vaginal muscles (Sometimes without knowing it), therefore making it even harder for penetration. I recommend lots of foreplay, using lubrication and getting her to the point where she is completely relaxed and ready. Be patient with her, it'll all improve soon enough.