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I keep hearing loads of stuff about this and i'm just generally wondering.
If you are in a relationship and you speak to random people on the internet, how far do you think it's acceptable to "go" with them? Just some light flirting or a few "x"'s at the end of the convo? Full on cyber sex or nothing remotely sexual at all?
What's ok and what is considered cheating?
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Cybersex is sooooo tacky. More so when it's with randomers you don't know. And yes, I'd be fuming if I found out my bf had been doing things like that...
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So even if he was just flirting a wee bit with some random stranger, you'd still be mad then?
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Eh, as far as I'm concerned I wouldn't go further/act any different than I would offline. The odd bit of light flirting I guess.
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lol cyber sex. why you do that? you have to type simultaneously. i dont like the thought, but if you up for a bit of fun why not. be aware it can be anyone on the other side of pc.
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I'm not suggesting cyber sex is for everyone, it's not even my cup of tea, just that's really the "furthest you can go" online
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I wouldn't be amused if I found out my girlfriend had been flirting with some random person online.
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Well flirting with other people other than your bf/gf when your in a relationship seems rather unfair even if it is online. Light flirting isnt too bad though, just try and keep it light and not give the other person the wrong impression.
As for the x's thing, I put them to basically everyone (apart from guys lol) so it really doesnt make much difference unless you fill like a whole page in x's lol.
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I wouldn't do anything and I wouldn't want my partner to. It's weird and seems kind of desperate too, and if there is one thing my partner wouldn't be it's desperate. Ahem.
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(Original post by SmilerNuts)
I'm not suggesting cyber sex is for everyone, it's not even my cup of tea, just that's really the "furthest you can go" online
I'd have thought the furthest you could go would be showing your balls to a lass on webcam.
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I wouldn't be amused if I found out my girlfriend had been flirting with some random person online.
Is it not fairly harmless? It's at least slightly safer than flirting with random guys in a club
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I'd have thought the furthest you could go would be showing your balls to a lass on webcam.
Yeah, during cyber sex no? Never tried that but i know people who go flashing on webcam during CS
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(Original post by SmilerNuts)
Is it not fairly harmless? It's at least slightly safer than flirting with random guys in a club
How about a cyber threesome or a cyber gang bang? That's a safer alternative to swinging.
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I'd have thought the furthest you could go would be showing your balls to a lass on webcam.
lol reminds me of the first time I used this program called CU SeeMe, it was one of the first video chat things, way before ICQ and MSN Messenger. I'm showing my sister the wonders of the internet by clicking on some lady's name for a chat and what comes up is a nice image of some old lady's naked body.

Another thing some of these people would do, is show you a video of porn and in return they thought you'd show yourself. Pretty pathetic.
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So even if he was just flirting a wee bit with some random stranger, you'd still be mad then?
It's more the fact that my bf would WANT to do such a thing and fantasise about cyber sex with some randomer that is the problem and that is what I'd be fuming about. The fact that it's a stranger and it's not an actual act that's carried out does not matter. What matters is he wants to do this and fantasise about this with other girls.
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lol reminds me of the first time I used this program called CU SeeMe, it was one of the first video chat things, way before ICQ and MSN Messenger. I'm showing my sister the wonders of the internet by clicking on some lady's name for a chat and what comes up is a nice image of some old lady's naked body.

Another thing some of these people would do, is show you a video of porn and in return they thought you'd show yourself. Pretty pathetic.
And you're trying to convince us you ahd no idea what was gonna pop up? :p:

Yeah but swinging is something you do with partners consent, this would be just if you got bored online and were flirting with some randomer. Nice idea though :p:
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how is an 'x' at the end of a message going anywhere at all? lol...
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Cybersex is sooooo tacky. More so when it's with randomers you don't know. And yes, I'd be fuming if I found out my bf had been doing things like that...
Absolutely (agreeing with you a lot tonight, aren't I? :p:). I'd be mad because a) If he felt sexually unfulfilled, I'd be annoyed that he couldn't talk to me about it, b) It's tacky as hell. Go and have real sex.

I may be biased because I don't talk to randomers online (does TSR count?), especially flirting and the like. Maybe I just don't see the appeal :confused: Maybe someone who does it/ has done it can explain the appeal?
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(Original post by SmilerNuts)
And you're trying to convince us you ahd no idea what was gonna pop up? :p:

Yeah but swinging is something you do with partners consent, this would be just if you got bored online and were flirting with some randomer. Nice idea though :p:
I was showing this to my sister!
This was just a video chat thing like the video equivalent of MSN or whatever so you just click on someone's name and start chatting.

Hey if you get bored online you could start flirting with *Katie*, she seems to want to experiment. She hasn't tried it yet.
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(Original post by SmilerNuts)
So even if he was just flirting a wee bit with some random stranger, you'd still be mad then?
There's a difference between flirting a bit and having cybersex. The latter is a definite no-no, the former depends on circumstances.

If you're bored in real life, you don't go out and find someone to have sex with. Same applies online.
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