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How do (you) women feel about guys who are virgins?

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Reply 1

herbal bug

12

I'm impartial. if he's had sex then yay for him, if he hasn't then yay for him.
as long as he didnt sleep around too much for the sake of it then i'd be happy.

hope this helps

Reply 2

Lucy May

Personally i'd pick a guy who was a virgin over a guy who'd had lots of sex.

Reply 3

Somebody

1

I like it - I think it's probably more attractive in a guy!

I mean, you don't have "Oh my. What if I'm not as good as his previous girlfriends?

And for the same reasons, I am a virgin :p:

Though, I am a Christian and therefore don't really want sex before marriage :p:

But it's one of the things I really do find attractive in a guy - shows he won't just jump in bed with anyone and has actually thought about what he's doing! (Well, most of the time!)

Reply 4

Cthulhufiend

You can corrupt them. :P

I wouldn't mind.

I B.S.

YES *pumps fist*

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Reply 7

I B.S.

OP

Somebody

I like it - I think it's probably more attractive in a guy!

I mean, you don't have "Oh my. What if I'm not as good as his previous girlfriends?

And for the same reasons, I am a virgin :p:

Though, I am a Christian and therefore don't really want sex before marriage :p:

But it's one of the things I really do find attractive in a guy - shows he won't just jump in bed with anyone and has actually thought about what he's doing! (Well, most of the time!)

thanks! this is very refreshing, i'm a christian too and share that value. i've just been slightly worried because i've heard around that girls prefer experienced guys, but it's good to know that you see virginity as an indication of morals/thoughtfulness. i personally think is should be saved for marriage too, with the person you'll spend forever with. [i also saw in the movie the breakfast club the girl saying it's okay for a guy to be a virgin...so i was like why are you saying it's okay as if you're trying to reassure, as if thinking the opposite of it being okay is the usual way of thinking...oh dear...but it's just a movie i guess lol]

Reply 8

Unregistered

Indifferent really, being a virgin makes you no worse in bed than somebody who has had sex with a hundred people. What works for one girl won't work for another.

It's all about confidence, if you don't see it as an issue then it isn't.

Reply 9

Yellowmarshmellow

Wouldn't mind at all, makes no difference :smile:

Reply 10

Somebody

1

I B.S.

thanks! this is very refreshing, i'm a christian too and share that value. i've just been slightly worried because i've heard around that girls prefer experienced guys, but it's good to know that you see virginity as an indication of morals/thoughtfulness. i personally think is should be saved for marriage too, with the person you'll spend forever with. [i also saw in the movie the breakfast club the girl saying it's okay for a guy to be a virgin...so i was like why are you saying it's okay as if you're trying to reassure, as if thinking the opposite of it being okay is the usual way of thinking...oh dear...but it's just a movie i guess lol]

The thing about our society is that pretty much everything revolves around sex. Unfortunately.
Don't give in to what the world says you have to do. Far easier said than done I guess, but who said being a Christian's going to be easy :wink:

If you need anyone to talk to, feel free to PM me :p:

It's nice to know I'm not the only Christian on here! I think that if bothers people, then they probably aren't the best people to be with :wink:

True friends and boyfriends / girlfriends shouldn't be phased about things like that if they like you for who you are! :p:

Reply 11

Profesh

20

Timeslikethese

Indifferent really, being a virgin makes you no worse in bed than somebody who has had sex with a hundred people. What works for one girl won't work for another.

It's all about confidence, if you don't see it as an issue then it isn't.