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How to get over someone?

Hey I recently had a thing with this guy and it's come to an end. I am finding it very hard to accept that he's ignoring me and I can't move on. He said a load of nice things to me at the beginning and I fell for it which Is making it even harder to accept.

I know I sound like a silly little school girl but I would like some tips on how to get over someone, and do you need closure In order to really get over it?!

Thanks

Reply 1

just try and forget it and direct your effort at something else like academic studies (but the time of the year is not right lol) and go out a lot with your mates. just chill and find something to do.

Reply 2

No I guess you don't always need closure of some kind. Try focusing you attention on other men and try dating a couple to see where it goes. Remind yourself that all those things that he said although made you feel fluttery inside were all false coming from his mouth and if its worth remembering then it should be from someone who actually cares for you. He is not worth your time :smile:

:smile:

:wink:

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:tee:

Reply 3

Anonymous

How to get over someone?

Use a ladder.

:s-smilie:

:s-smilie:

Reply 4

tetrahydrocannabinol.

DiscoPirate

Use a ladder.

:s-smilie:

:s-smilie:

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA OMG THAT'S SO FUNNY!!!!!!!!11111111111

Lame.

Reply 5

Did this guy know how you felt or was it sort of a secret thing you had for him?

I'm confused With you saying it's 'come to an end' Does it mean you were in a relationship and now it's come to an end, or you've just stopped liking him?

Reply 6

OP

Thanks for your replies! I have a busy weekend ahead so should take my mind off it. I do have some uni work to be doing but at the moment my mind has been too occupied by this to do it, shall try and reverse this around.

This guy knew how I felt about him, we weren't anything exclusive but as contact has dwindeled to nothing I am guessing that he's not interested. There's no point flogging a dead horse, I might as well take the hint.

Reply 7

Yeh, just move on to someone new. Or enjoy being single.

Reply 8

Anonymous

Hey I recently had a thing with this guy and it's come to an end. I am finding it very hard to accept that he's ignoring me and I can't move on. He said a load of nice things to me at the beginning and I fell for it which Is making it even harder to accept.

I know I sound like a silly little school girl but I would like some tips on how to get over someone, and do you need closure In order to really get over it?!

Replacement is the way forward: Take a small step back and replace him with other male company. It'll allow you to make lots of fab new friends, without suffering greatly from withdrawal. Plus, friendships with the newbies could well blossom into far better than you've experienced to date.

Ooh - and getting over something/someone is closure. :wink:

:wink:

Reply 9

try taking up a new hobby? =]

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