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How far would you go???

Random but if you had been with a guy for a long time and he started to like another girl and dumped you but you managed to get him back...

How far would you go to keep him?

How low would you stoop?

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Reply 1

HereFishyFishy

You 'managed'? What, by physically removing him from the other girl??

Not very far at all, I'd hope. If he's going to dump me for somebody else.

Reply 2

Jelkin

I'd pretend I wanted a quickie in the bushes outside my house, then I'd take his clothes and lock him outside. Just like the movies.

Reply 3

Viridis

I wouldn't want him back in the first place :smile:

Reply 4

I_am_the_mob

Yeah I wouldn't either but say you were pathetic lol

Reply 5

L0RA

Surely its a 50/50 decision by both of you to decide whether you should be in a relationship or not.

Its not just your decision, it wont work unless he wants to be with you so you shouldnt have to 'stoop low' to keep him... :confused:

Reply 6

I_am_the_mob

I am not talking about me so I don't know to be honest, don't worry

Reply 7

ajking

Well im a guy and if a girl i was in love with with started to like another guy i would try my best to show that im the one they should be with...but i guess the "mature" option would be just to move on as love takes 2...and if one person falls out of love then it makes the whole thing impossible. :frown:

Reply 8

blondevalkyrie

I wouldn't want him back, if he dumped me for someone else.

Reply 9

username47781

I would tell him where to go personally.

Reply 10

louisedotcom

I wouldnt bother, I have more self respect than that. I also have enough common sense to realise that he was a tosser and not worth my time :smile:

Reply 11

randomgirl

Personally I wouldn't bother.

You shouldn't have to make somebody be with you, they should want to be with you more than anyone else.

Reply 12

Laursy

id be myself coz if he wanted to be with me then he would want me the way i am!!!!

not pretending to be somoene else and trying to hard to keep him!!

i wouldn;t care if he still stayed in contact with the other girl as long as he wasn't doing anything with her behind my back i wouldn't want to control my boyfriend and say he can;t be mates with any girls (you know some girls are like that)

Reply 13

I_am_the_mob

Yeah, well to be honest I am the other girl and we didn't do anything but now he and I can't talk, she had people spying on us at school and checks his phone etc. She spread a few rumours about me which I brushed off. Now she's trying to come between me and my best guy mate, she flirts with him outrageously (while she's still with her boyfriend who I like A LOT and miss so much) and she even fabricated an msn conversation between my friend and her to make us argue (I believed him though). Basically she's making me miserable and I can't help how I feel and I never tried to split them up or anything like that. I feel that she should leave me alone now but I'm worried what she's saying to her boyfriend about me, she's said stuff to just about everyone else...

Reply 14

Sticky

Go as far as possible because everyone knows that, the more you give a guy what he wants, the more he'll love you and respect you forever. :rolleyes:

I'm confused, there's this girl's boyfriend who you used to go out with? and then there's a guy who's a mate? It's all very confusing.

Reply 15

ßlαcksωαn

I'm not a slut
I don't believe in using my body to keep him

Reply 16

Unregistered

If he ever wanted to leave me, i'd assume he was mentally ill and avoid him at all costs. :biggrin:

Reply 17

blot

The problem with your suggestion is that the mentally ill are like middle class kids at university. Ubiquitous. You for instance couldn't even avoid me on this forum.