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    Ummm… so yeah as the title says, i think he's an absolute creep like idk i tell myself (and him) that i don't like him and don't want to talk to him and so i don't think he likes me anymore but yet i always reply to his messages and can't stop thinking about him and i imagine weird stuff to tell him but when I'm about to message him i can't seem to get the words out. He talks to so many other girls though and i know that and know he is probably just talking to me for a fake f*** but if it's so wrong why can't i stop thinking about him? and why every time he messages me or wants to talk i get annoyed and 'end it' but when he ignores me i get upset and want to message him or plan what to say next? I'm confused... (i have never had any previous relationship experience so I'm kinda new to this 'love' thing)

    Advice pls? (i probs won't reply to all comments so don't be offended if i don't but i will appreciate nice comments)

    Soz for the long para xxx
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    I think you already know what to do. Come clean, tell him how you feel or cut him out of your life- quickest way to get rid of someone. Yes it'll hurt, but maybe it'd make you feel better in the long term, idk
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    This sounds like a love/hate relationship
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    This sounds like a love/hate relationship
    Yeah but he's just weird and all he wants to talk about is sex and stuff and one moment he's fine and we are acc having a conversation then all of a sudden he'll just be really sexual (too much for me) But idk how to feel about that like when he does i feel so disgusted but secretly i kinda like it but idk if he asks all girls the same stuff.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yeah but he's just weird and all he wants to talk about is sex and stuff and one moment he's fine and we are acc having a conversation then all of a sudden he'll just be really sexual (too much for me) But idk how to feel about that like when he does i feel so disgusted but secretly i kinda like it but idk if he asks all girls the same stuff.
    What kind of questions
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    (Original post by TruthBeTold')
    What kind of questions
    Could i do xyz to/with you?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Could i do xyz to/with you?
    xyz doesn't seem sexual to me
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Could i do xyz to/with you?
    ok for real - you're clearly roasting for some. If you didn't want to do 'xzy' you wouldn't want to speak to him let alone 'fall in love' (lol).

    So right now you're depriving yourself/wasting time
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    But it's so random it's unbelievable like i want to get to know him personally but it just seems all he wants me to do talk about sex and my sex life with him and I've only known him for a month (not long enough to trust him) but idk why i know it's weird and i shouldn't talk to this guy like this (as it's all online messages btw) but why do i feel so wanting of him and want to know more about him when what I'm seeing is a f***boy. i don't talk to guys much and have never been in love before so maybe that might be the problem idk.
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    (Original post by TruthBeTold')
    ok for real - you're clearly roasting for some. If you didn't want to do 'xzy' you wouldn't want to speak to him let alone 'fall in love' (lol).

    So right now you're depriving yourself/wasting time
    But that's the thing i'm not and i know it. At first he was 'normal' and told me about him and his school and stuff and we really getting along then we just stopped for a few weeks then all of a sudden he pops up saying "hi" and then starts talking about porn and what he wants to do to me after i haven't spoken or heard from him throughout the whole summer.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    But that's the thing i'm not and i know it. At first he was 'normal' and told me about him and his school and stuff and we really getting along then we just stopped for a few weeks then all of a sudden he pops up saying "hi" and then starts talking about porn and what he wants to do to me after i haven't spoken or heard from him throughout the whole summer.
    Read what I said again and then read what you've written.

    How does it detract from my initial point that if you didn't want to do 'xyz' then you wouldn't be thinking about him, making posts on tsr about him and more importantly claim to be 'falling in love'.
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    (Original post by TruthBeTold')
    Read what I said again and then read what you've written.

    How does it detract from my initial point that if you didn't want to do 'xyz' then you wouldn't be thinking about him, making posts on tsr about him and more importantly claim to be 'falling in love'.
    No i do agree with you but don't get me wrong but it's not just the "xyz" stuff that i keep thinking about it's the fact that i want to get to know him personally minus the sex and he says ok fine and then we don't talk for days after and it's he how he comes across that gets me slightly freaked out that if i met him he would be a completely perv but what keeps me wanting to talk to him is what's behind that weirdness but idk how to get to it.
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    Just block him that's the best way out. Sounds like he is a f***boy don't trust him. lool

    If you know deep down that it's wrong or you know you don't like him then leave him. Simple.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    No i do agree with you but don't get me wrong but it's not just the "xyz" stuff that i keep thinking about it's the fact that i want to get to know him personally minus the sex and he says ok fine and then we don't talk for days after and it's he how he comes across that gets me slightly freaked out that if i met him he would be a completely perv but what keeps me wanting to talk to him is what's behind that weirdness but idk how to get to it.
    It's a risk you must take if you are to go through with whatever future relations you may have.

    The lad is as far away from the friendzone as possible. Give him credit.

    Now, pause the prudish demeanour and allow yourself on the journey.

    And if you don't like it, press play and continue with your life. Without him
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    (Original post by TruthBeTold')
    It's a risk you must take if you are to go through with whatever future relations you may have.

    The lad is as far away from the friendzone as possible. Give him credit.

    Now, pause the prudish demeanour and allow yourself on the journey.

    And if you don't like it, press play and continue with your life. Without him
    You're right

    Thank you for the advice!
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    You shouldn't be texting a boy. Why don't you renounce your western satanic ways and follow the path of Allah?
 
 
 
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