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    Hi,

    Firs time poster, long term stalker. Really looking for a girl's opinion (and guy's too if it's useful).

    Went on a few dates with a girl, it ended with "You are my type, but I just don't feel it after meeting you twice". First date was better than second date, but second one we even talked about dating history and types of relationship phobias.

    Now what does this mean? I am not hung up on the girl but:

    1) I have changed a lot recently, I am not narcissistic but I dont know whether I am attractive or not.
    2) I am inexperienced.

    Thanks in advance!

    Winston
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    "You are my type, but I just don't feel it after meeting you twice"

    Ah, my sweet sweet logic crumbling down before my very own eyes.
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    (Original post by Wchan888)
    Hi,

    Firs time poster, long term stalker. Really looking for a girl's opinion (and guy's too if it's useful).

    Went on a few dates with a girl, it ended with "You are my type, but I just don't feel it after meeting you twice". First date was better than second date, but second one we even talked about dating history and types of relationship phobias.

    Now what does this mean? I am not hung up on the girl but:

    1) I have changed a lot recently, I am not narcissistic but I dont know whether I am attractive or not.
    2) I am inexperienced.

    Thanks in advance!

    Winston
    Hi Winston she did somewhat like you to begin with or maybe she liked the idea of you then after the second date she realised you didn't match up to that idea. You're not her type, she's just saying that to make you feel better, when a girl is ending things with a guy they'll sometimes say the most bizarre or untrue things because they think it'll make you feel better. You also sound like you lack assertion/confidence
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    In my opinion (girl) what she means is that you look good/are hot, but she does not feel any chemistry and you might not have that much in common. Remember just believe in yourself she went on a date with you so she does think you are attractive!
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    Thanks for the replies, very helpful. Please keep them coming. Perhaps speaking extensively on apps before meeting was a mistake (but that was bound by holidays etc). You are right, confidence is at an uncertain level, slightly schizophrenic, as I don't know where to position myself after my physical change.
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    (Original post by Wchan888)
    1) I am not narcissistic

    2) I am inexperienced
    You've likely identified your two main (interrelated) problems right there, amigo Related thread. Related article
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    Ah thanks.
 
 
 
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