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the ex factor
im so confused im pretty sure this won't make any sense!
i went out with my ex for about 6-7 months and we broke up at the end of april,
it was an amicable break up, we both agreed it wasn't working even though i was too confused at the time, i thought he couldn't be bothered with me so i couldn;t be bothered with him,
so a few weeks ago we mat up and slept together!! we both knew it would happen and we both wanted it to happen!!
then i saw him at his sisters birthday and we didn't really speak to each other coz his other annoying ex was there all over him,
so i left it at that and went home, then last sat we all met up for a drink, his other annoying ex was there and she was trying way way to hard, i didn't even speak to him hardly and then after she had left my other two mates asked if i wanted to stay round theres and i knew what would happen, my ex told me we will have to share a bed!! both of us didn't mind and we spoke for about an hour about the past etc!!
we slept together again, i know it will happen again, my mate said you will have to stop it from happening, but what if i don;t want to stop it from happening, im really confused, his mate said he likes me but didn't really say much else, all my other mates said they can tell he still likes me!!
he says his head is messed up about me at the moment!! not to messed up that he can have sex with me,!!!
i don;t know how i feeel but i know i would do it again!! god im such an idiot
when we were together we never argued and we didn't fall out!!! and im well confused lol!!! i don';t know how he feels and i don;t know how i feel!!
am i a complete slut?
i went out with my ex for about 6-7 months and we broke up at the end of april,
it was an amicable break up, we both agreed it wasn't working even though i was too confused at the time, i thought he couldn't be bothered with me so i couldn;t be bothered with him,
so a few weeks ago we mat up and slept together!! we both knew it would happen and we both wanted it to happen!!
then i saw him at his sisters birthday and we didn't really speak to each other coz his other annoying ex was there all over him,
so i left it at that and went home, then last sat we all met up for a drink, his other annoying ex was there and she was trying way way to hard, i didn't even speak to him hardly and then after she had left my other two mates asked if i wanted to stay round theres and i knew what would happen, my ex told me we will have to share a bed!! both of us didn't mind and we spoke for about an hour about the past etc!!
we slept together again, i know it will happen again, my mate said you will have to stop it from happening, but what if i don;t want to stop it from happening, im really confused, his mate said he likes me but didn't really say much else, all my other mates said they can tell he still likes me!!
he says his head is messed up about me at the moment!! not to messed up that he can have sex with me,!!!
i don;t know how i feeel but i know i would do it again!! god im such an idiot
when we were together we never argued and we didn't fall out!!! and im well confused lol!!! i don';t know how he feels and i don;t know how i feel!!
am i a complete slut?
Reply 1
I don't think you are a slut...
It's not like you are sleeping with loads of guys and you clearly still have feelings for him
I think you need to sort your head out though because it will hurt you both not knowing what you want
If you do decide you want a relationship it sounds promising
It's not like you are sleeping with loads of guys and you clearly still have feelings for him
I think you need to sort your head out though because it will hurt you both not knowing what you want
If you do decide you want a relationship it sounds promising
Reply 2
he was saying he felt bad about the way he treated me and was telling me his housemate was on my side all through out the whole thing!
the other ex keeps getting in the way!! i think he is confused and doesn't have a clue what he wants the last thing i want is to scare him off, i don't want to lose him,
i said to his mate tonight that last week i hardly spoke to him, and he said you didn't have to!! whats that mean!!
everyone has been saying im far nicer then the annoying ex but she annoys me soo much she was all over him and i just sat there quietly!! and he didn;t want her!!
lifes so confusing isn;t it, i can;t see myself going and meeting someone else to get over it coz i just don;t want to meet anyone new at the moment!! (know whats its like when you just can;t be bothered to start dating people)
ive liked my ex since we were in year 8 and we went out 2 years ago for a little while and then we didn't speck and we got back together in oct last year and then all this, the history is getting bigger!!!
the other ex keeps getting in the way!! i think he is confused and doesn't have a clue what he wants the last thing i want is to scare him off, i don't want to lose him,
i said to his mate tonight that last week i hardly spoke to him, and he said you didn't have to!! whats that mean!!
everyone has been saying im far nicer then the annoying ex but she annoys me soo much she was all over him and i just sat there quietly!! and he didn;t want her!!
lifes so confusing isn;t it, i can;t see myself going and meeting someone else to get over it coz i just don;t want to meet anyone new at the moment!! (know whats its like when you just can;t be bothered to start dating people)
ive liked my ex since we were in year 8 and we went out 2 years ago for a little while and then we didn't speck and we got back together in oct last year and then all this, the history is getting bigger!!!
Reply 3
Are you sure hes not still sleeping with his other ex as well?
Reply 4
i know hes not sleeping with her!!
she is like a bunny boiler!!
she is like a bunny boiler!!
Reply 5
Perhaps before you talk to him about you and him you should talk about her
I think that sounds good, maybe the mate meant that you didn't have to speak to him to evoke feelings or whatever (it made sense in my head)
i said to his mate tonight that last week i hardly spoke to him, and he said you didn't have to!! whats that mean!!
I think that sounds good, maybe the mate meant that you didn't have to speak to him to evoke feelings or whatever (it made sense in my head)
Reply 6
Ok to the OP I'm really sorry because this isn't a serious post, and I'm sure you need advice but one thing...
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the title was friggin' amazing, seriously no sarcasm I thuoght it was great, because of that I think whatever you're doing is the right thing ^^ thumbs up, keep a positive outlook on life, just have faith in what you do, because at the end of the day if we can't have faith in our own actions, we would be paralyzed by our own indeciciveness (sp?)
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the title was friggin' amazing, seriously no sarcasm I thuoght it was great, because of that I think whatever you're doing is the right thing ^^ thumbs up, keep a positive outlook on life, just have faith in what you do, because at the end of the day if we can't have faith in our own actions, we would be paralyzed by our own indeciciveness (sp?)
Reply 7
it so confusing coz its him and im confused!
im just acting like its just sex and blah blah blah!! he tells his mate everything and he said he told him every detail which i knew he would but its good he opended up about it??
grrrr men!!!! lol
im just acting like its just sex and blah blah blah!! he tells his mate everything and he said he told him every detail which i knew he would but its good he opended up about it??
grrrr men!!!! lol
Reply 8
all i cared about waht his other ex will be hurt to find out that we have been sleeping together!!
everyone is saying why are you even bothered about what she thinks!
coz i don't want to hurt people!! and i don't want to fall out and i just am like that overall i didn't care if i got hurt!! god im really silly lol
everyone is saying why are you even bothered about what she thinks!
coz i don't want to hurt people!! and i don't want to fall out and i just am like that overall i didn't care if i got hurt!! god im really silly lol
Reply 9
grrrr men!!!! lol
I agree!
They are confusing people
What I would say though is don't act too much like you couldn't care less because if he is really serious about you he may be hurt and not take the next step.
I think a good balance is necessary here between being totally aloof and alike to his bunny boiler ex
Reply 10
all i cared about waht his other ex will be hurt to find out that we have been sleeping together!!
everyone is saying why are you even bothered about what she thinks!
everyone is saying why are you even bothered about what she thinks!
If she still likes him (as she obviously does) she probably will be hurt for a while but she will get over it and she is history.
If you give up him because of her you may regret it
Reply 11
If she still likes him (as she obviously does) she probably will be hurt for a while but she will get over it and she is history.
If you give up him because of her you may regret it
i knew she wanted me to battle it out for him and i refused to!!
my mate even said it was his idea to get me out tonight but it took so long for me to answer the phone he went home! which means everything i said tonight will go back to him and then we will be playing pass the message!!
mayeb i should just leave it ands see!! my mate said you can either keep sleeping with him or stop him!!! coz he did that with his girlfriend and now they are getting married she kept going and coming back and eventually they figured out what they wanted!! which was nice!!
anyway im off for the night to get some shut eye hope i dunt get confused at work or ill have to go over it all again lol!! hear people say you silly girl lol!! oh well
thankx though people!! for ya advise xx
Reply 12
More exclamation marks!! Please!!!!
Sorry, was getting on my nerves.
More to the point: talking to him is going to sort things out a lot quicker than talking to those on TSR.
Sorry, was getting on my nerves.
More to the point: talking to him is going to sort things out a lot quicker than talking to those on TSR.
Reply 13
Talk to him, ask him if he still has feelings about you. Maybe make another go at it. If he doesn't want you, stop sleeping with him, you are only making things worse.
Reply 15
Talk to him
I can see that what his mates have been saying is good but relying on other people to communicate between you isn't very healthy and it could end in tears (the go between could run off with the guy... it happened lol)
I can see that what his mates have been saying is good but relying on other people to communicate between you isn't very healthy and it could end in tears (the go between could run off with the guy... it happened lol)
Reply 16
(the go between could run off with the guy... it happened lol)
its his best male mate so i dunt think so lol im more worried about the other ex ruining his life sorry about the !! bad habit.
Reply 17
its his best male mate so i dunt think so lol im more worried about the other ex ruining his life sorry about the !! bad habit.
Well if he wants you and him to be together and you let her get in the way then you are letting her ruin things
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