You will have so many people saying it but really, you WILL get over it/ At the time i know it doesn't feel like it but you will. Have your crying upset time and then just put it behind you, thats what i had to do. With mine i worked with him so i had to see him every day, for the first few i felt like i was going to breakdown every two seconds, and did lol. But after a while i did a kind of reality check and realised it was over and i had to get on with my life, or its me who will be screwed up by it. So i got rid of any texts from him, any cards from birthdays or anything met up with some friends and from that moved on. I think it was easier for me than it is for most but sometimes you have to realise you're better off without them and get on with your life.