Is this a come-on?

Basically, it was my birthday last week and this girl who's a friend of a friend left me a Facebook message saying "Happy Birthday! Remind me to buy you a drink when we're back at Uni". I don't really know her well at all, so I wasn't sure if it was. She's quite attractive so I would quite like if it was, or am I reading too much into it?

Considering how I don't really know her it seemed odd, but the best kind of odd >_>

Cheers.

Reply 1

Rutter knows best!

someone messaged me telling me they wanted to give me a hug, but when i saw them ......no hug.

Reply 2

andrewjh009

I wouldn't read too much into that, just let her buy you a drink and be friendly chatty etc, take it from there and if your interested sexually eventually make some kind of more to see if she feels the same.

Reply 3

fleur de lis

Yeah I really wouldn't read too much into that. Just sounds like a friendly comment to me :smile:

Reply 4

I_am_the_mob

Yeah I wouldn't read too much into anything on Facebook etc. you can't tell what people really mean, wait until you see her to decide if she's interested

Reply 5

username47781

It could mean anything, maybe she just wants to talk more than anything else.

Reply 6

randomgirl

Just a friendly comment, it doesn't mean she wants to get into your pants. :p:

Although it doesn't mean that she doesn't want to get into your pants either.

Reply 7

silverbolt

lfc4life

Doesn't sound like anything more than a friendly comment to me to be honest.

yeah some people just over analyse everything

Reply 8

jumpinglunch

Print the message out and when you see her get that drink!

Reply 9

hannah_dru

It's possible. If she says it again more than once then I would take it as a come on. A guy did that to me quite a few times and I was sure he wanted things to go further.

Reply 10

Ironic_

Well it's not a "I find you repulsive" we can tell that much.

Keep an open mind. Assuming she wants more will just set you up for disappointment.

Reply 11

DressMeDeadly

Don't think of it as a come-on in case it isn't. But i doubt she would have left the message if she wasn't at least interested in getting to know you more. So think of it as an invitation, as others have said, get her to buy you that drink and get to know her more than you do now.

Reply 12

red

That's hard to tell, and I wouldn't be too sure of anything yet if I were you - all you can do is wait and see :smile:

So don't make any strong assumptions yet, it may be wrong.

It could be that she's just being friendly, messing around or likes you. No-one would be able to tell until you actually see her next :smile:

Reply 13

Phantom Phoenix