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Reply 1
I can understand why you'd want to tell him, but if it was me I would probably just let him find out for himself. It may be a bit of a shock for about 10 seconds or something, but it shouldn't matter to him and if it does, then he can piss off home.

If you told him, you could be making a bigger issue out of it than necessary and he could start to care about it more than he would have if you didn't tell him. I don't know. That's just how I would imagine it to be.
I agree, it probably won't be an issue if he really likes you so showing you are insecure about it may make him worry about it
Reply 3
1. He's almost certainly noticed.
2. It is honestly nothing like as big of a problem as you might imagine. I could easily have a relationship with a flat chested girl, as long as she wasn't overweight or ugly, and most importantly she needs to have a good personality.
Reply 4
guys arn't as dumb as they look. he most proberbly knows
Reply 5
If he's real, he'll like you for who you are and not your assets :smile:
Reply 6
lewis321
guys arn't as dumb as they look.


So they are dumb to an extent? :biggrin: :p: lol
Tbh, I'm sure he's probably worked it out anyway. With that in mind, if he's still around, I'm sure he's not going to be that bothered. I'd not say anything and let him find out for himself :smile:
So they are dumb to an extent? lol


apparently so, well done
Reply 9
There's nothing wrong with a flat-chested lass. Personally, I prefer smaller boobs to big ones. Don't worry about it!
I doubt your man will care,i wouldn't.Just tell him.
I was just wondering, why are you guys writing that he probably worked it out ?? How ? I have the same problem as OP that's why I am posting it anon.. And I guess I would not tell him and wait till he 'finds out'.
Wouldn't you rather tell him now and see his reaction to determine if he is a prick or not? Why give him a chance to feel you all over, only to realize he's an idiot.
Reply 13
Anonymous
I was just wondering, why are you guys writing that he probably worked it out ?? How ? I have the same problem as OP that's why I am posting it anon.. And I guess I would not tell him and wait till he 'finds out'.


Well it's fairly self evident just from looking at the girl's top. Unless the bra is padded with watermelons it's gonna be obvious that they aren't exactly huge. But personally, I really don't mind. It's obviously nice to have a bit of boob to play with, but it's not all that important.
Only a shallow guy would ditch you for being flat-chested.
He can probably tell anyway, really.

Just let him find out for himself (unless he already knows), and if it is a big issue to him and he doesn't like your bra size, he isn't worth your time!
Firstly, He will probobly have noticed

Secondly, I don't really think he'll care. It's an upsetting stereotype that guys only want to go with girls with a wonderful pair of boobs

Thirdly, I hardly see why you should feel the need to list out personal attributes to him. I mean, on the flipsode, have any of your ex boyfriends just gone up to you going "oh, by the way, i have a blah inch penis?"
Reply 17
If he's already noticed (probably has figured it out) and he's still seeing you, then I think you've got someone nice on your hands.

Regardless of him already knowing, I don't think it's necessary to tell him. :smile: I don't see a need, and it's not important (or at least, shouldn't be)
Reply 18
I personally wouldn't care too much if i was with a flat chested girl if i really liked her, it's not an issue...boobs aren't my number 1 attraction to a woman.

I was with a girl that had really small boobs, didn't bother me, it was still fun!
Im only a 32a but thats never bothered my boyf, we joke about it half the time but he's a decent guy and I think he fanices alot more about me than my boobs!
I understand your worried, it use to really get me down when I was in school etc but Iv got over it now, Ill never have saggy baggys and they'll always be perky so wahey for me.
If he's a decent guy he will like you for being you not for your boobs, not all guys are that shallow. And he will have definatly noticed your no Jordan, my boyf guessed my bra size before he'd even copped a feel!