Not able to get over a guy I dated

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    I dated this guy for a few months about 3 months ago now. We were seemingly getting pretty serious and he was the one who brought up 'what we were' and said he wanted it to be a serious relationship.

    It sounds silly but I really fell for him. I thought he had fallen for me too. In hindsight he was probably just buttering me up to use me.

    He dumped me the day before we both went home for the summer (we are at university)

    I was so awfully upset and moped around for about a month. But I was working full time at home over the summer and have a lot of great friends there and after awhile I got over him. Or so I thought.

    Then I come back to uni and all the feelings come rushing back. Today I feel so upset about it I cant get out of bed. I'm terrified of him getting a new gf as I know I this would hurt a lot. I really want him back in my life but things ended messily as I was so upset ( and he didn't dump me very nicely).


    Sometimes I consider messaging him in a few weeks if these feelings don't subside. Would this be a good idea ?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I dated this guy for a few months about 3 months ago now. We were seemingly getting pretty serious and he was the one who brought up 'what we were' and said he wanted it to be a serious relationship.

    It sounds silly but I really fell for him. I thought he had fallen for me too. In hindsight he was probably just buttering me up to use me.

    He dumped me the day before we both went home for the summer (we are at university)

    I was so awfully upset and moped around for about a month. But I was working full time at home over the summer and have a lot of great friends there and after awhile I got over him. Or so I thought.

    Then I come back to uni and all the feelings come rushing back. Today I feel so upset about it I cant get out of bed. I'm terrified of him getting a new gf as I know I this would hurt a lot. I really want him back in my life but things ended messily as I was so upset ( and he didn't dump me very nicely).


    Sometimes I consider messaging him in a few weeks if these feelings don't subside. Would this be a good idea ?
    Just have to suck it up, don't avoid or it'll affect you more.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I dated this guy for a few months about 3 months ago now. We were seemingly getting pretty serious and he was the one who brought up 'what we were' and said he wanted it to be a serious relationship.

    It sounds silly but I really fell for him. I thought he had fallen for me too. In hindsight he was probably just buttering me up to use me.

    He dumped me the day before we both went home for the summer (we are at university)

    I was so awfully upset and moped around for about a month. But I was working full time at home over the summer and have a lot of great friends there and after awhile I got over him. Or so I thought.

    Then I come back to uni and all the feelings come rushing back. Today I feel so upset about it I cant get out of bed. I'm terrified of him getting a new gf as I know I this would hurt a lot. I really want him back in my life but things ended messily as I was so upset ( and he didn't dump me very nicely).


    Sometimes I consider messaging him in a few weeks if these feelings don't subside. Would this be a good idea ?
    You just need to move on hun. he is not the only boy in this world that you will fall for. i'm sure you will find someone else.
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    You need to move on and find yourself another man. I've heard from reliable sources that Orbital_Rising has quite the package.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    You need to move on and find yourself another man. I've heard from reliable sources that Orbital_Rising has quite the package.
    Very true. 👌
 
 
 
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