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    Since I can't get girls I sometimes do with a hooker. Does anyone know how it compares to sex with a girlfriend? Which is better?
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    Hopefully your girlfriend wouldn't be keeping one eye on the clock.
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    If she is both .............................?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Since I can't get girls I sometimes do with a hooker. Does anyone know how it compares to sex with a girlfriend? Which is better?
    lol i doubt many on here have had sex with a hooker! How does it compare? you have sex with your girlfriend you are doing it with someone you feel strongly about and have a emotional and physical connection with which is a million times better. With a hooker they just see you as a client they have no feelings towards you except for your cash.
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    (Original post by RayApparently)
    Hopefully your girlfriend wouldn't be keeping one eye on the clock.
    True that.

    Emotional connection with girlfriend, therefore I imagine it would be lackluster to have sex with a hooker.
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    Demeaning with a hooker, I'd imagine.
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    Okay OP, If it's purely urges then hooker is okay.
    Negatives=money, also you will feel empty, if it's for the emotional/intimate side.

    If it's purely you want to **** then it's fine.
    -****ed a hooker.
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    well it depends if a girl likes you or not
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    it depends if girls like u or not
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    (Original post by SpiritSharD)
    True that.

    Emotional connection with girlfriend, therefore I imagine it would be lackluster to have sex with a hooker.
    Why? Surely if you want to have sex, it's better to get an expert in.

    My girlfriend can probably wash her car, but I'm sure those professional Eastern European dudes down the road who clean cars all day long, would do a much better job. I wouldn't then go and say "but they put no feeling into it".
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    do you have STD's?
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    In all honesty ****ing an escort is like masturbating.... it kinda fills that sexual itch but if you're not in a relationship (or in a bad one) it won't fill that hole. However it's more of a matter of feeling horny + money equals sex (presuming one you like is in the local area), where as in a relationship you have to rely mostly on both of you feeling horny.

    Generally speaking escorts are better, especially at blowjobs (their blowjob skills tend to outstrip that of civvies quite drastically). If you have a bad hooker 9 time out of 10 you've failed to do your research or it's simply an 'off day' for them. Similar going to a restaurant or movie. Most of these women rely on providing good sex to keep the good customers and to also attract new ones.... plus the better they are the more they can charge. The sex I've had with escorts generally speaking is better than average, although you always will potentially have bad punts. Also if you don't find them attractive you can just move on and find someone else. If they provide bad service and as such have to lower their costs, this only attracts the lowlifes.

    I've had that sinking feeling a couple of times, when I've had a potential partner who I've seen 3+ times on multiple dates, only to find them fairly sexually unattractive when they have taken their kit off. Also it's much harder to encourage a partner to improve their sexual methods while trying not to hurt their feelings. With escorts you simply move onto someone better or tell them you don't like something and they often will change their method into a manner you enjoy.

    However there is a complete lack of emotional connection, lack of feeling wanted and unless you're willing to spend an absolute fortune, repeat session in one night are unlikely. You also have the nice feature of both partners in a relationship trying to please each other. That said, sex with a hooker has no pressure and you can fulfil all your fantasies (as long as you have consent and have paid for it) without having to worry about their feelings. It's not so much acting like a complete **** and potentially abusing them, which is a sure way to get your number blocked, but more so you don't have to worry about whether or not they're enjoying what you happen to enjoy.

    A nice bonus is, unless you're stupid enough to go bareback, they're generally less likely to have STD's than your usual one night stand kinda girls, plus weirdly enough they're much better at holding a conversation than said one night stand individuals. I've even had drinks after a punt with the odd girl and had a complete laugh, although I'm not stupid enough to form a meaningful connection with them, although you always run that risk. One individual I have spoken too met his wife via paying her for sex :lol:
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    It depends on what you're looking for. (Personally, the thought 'they wouldn't be doing this if I weren't paying' would put such a dampener on things that this comes from talking to plenty of people who have paid rather than personal experience.)

    If you want the emotional side, then it's either simply not possible - regardless of whether 'GFE' is advertised - or it will get very painful, or very 'say goodbye to all your money' expensive, or both very quickly.

    If you want the physical sensations, then you can buy those, but you can get those from a Fleshlight and they're a lot cheaper.

    If you want something in the middle, say pleasant casual sex with someone of any particular physical type you desire, then it's possible. You'll need to do some research or you risk having unpleasant 'why didn't I just burn the money and masturbate instead' casual sex, and you'll probably find it much easier to get the pleasant kind by looking at people working independently rather than for some agency.
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    Erw.

    I imagine sex with a prostitute is like having sex with a human sex doll... Crap
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    You do realise that a stripper and a hooker are two completely different professions, right? The latter is about sex, the former is about appearing sexy. Completely different ball games.
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    (Original post by Little Popcorns)
    Erw.

    I imagine sex with a prostitute is like having sex with a human sex doll... Crap
    In my experience it's GF's or one night stands who sometimes act more like sex dolls....

    aka doing **** all....
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    In my experience it's GF's or one night stands who sometimes act more like sex dolls....

    aka doing **** all....
    you're clearly not stimulating them then either that or you're delusional and it's a sex doll
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    (Original post by samantham999)
    do you have STD's?
    Prostitutes tend to be very clean in terms of STDs, as it's such a prominent worry in their line of work. Health clinics visit many of them especially so that they can have regular testing
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    (Original post by Little Popcorns)
    you're clearly not stimulating them then either that or you're delusional and it's a sex doll
    If you get someone into bed and before *anything* happens they just lie there.... surely that's worse?

    You're suppose to stimulate each other. Too many women just presume it's either a one way street or that they can just use sex as a way to get guys to like them, whether they feel in the moment or not.

    At least most guys, regardless of their skills, like to try and make their partner happy.
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    Most would agree that sex with a girlfriend has the potential to be far better than an escort or ONS.
 
 
 
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