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    Ok lets say you blind dated in the dark and it turns out you have fun with each other and you had a lot in common and you wanted to see him/her again, but once the lights turned on he looked "ugly" or Unattractive not minor but like Hunchback of Notre Dame Ugly, please be honest in your answers.
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    No, of course not.
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    If I didn't have any sort of attraction to them then no I wouldn't. Some sort of physical attraction is important.
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    There has to be some sort of initial physical attraction though. If you don't find them physically attractive then personality or shared interests can only go so far.

    But there will be people who will say looks don't matter :rolleyes:
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    No. Ok I would have a good time with them, but I would want to be attracted to them.
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    Probably not
    If it was minor I definitely would
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    Tbh people get attracted usually due to appearance , and stay for the personality .
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    no I wouldn't, they'd be a friend
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    attraction starts with looks, but hunchback might not be ugly for everyone, but if they were ''ugly'' to me then no.
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    Ooooh maybe but i would be disappointed and it would make me less attracted to them… ngl but i would only want to be friends. But naturally everybody wants a hottie, right? Even when they say it's all about the personality is it, though?
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    no because sex is important for me so I'm not going to get into a relationship with someone I don't find sexy
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    (Original post by TSR Mustafa)
    Tbh people get attracted usually due to appearance , and stay for the personality .
    I've never seen something put more brilliantly on this topic.

    I would friendzone them if they turnt out to be ugly but then again I don't even blind/internet date, that's sad
    I wouldn't tell them to eff off for being ugly, no.
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    (Original post by 123moon)
    Ooooh maybe but i would be disappointed and it would make me less attracted to them… ngl but i would only want to be friends.
    Lol this.
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    If you aren't attracted to him then no it wont work dosen't matter if you have lots in common. I knew someone who i had so many things in common but never felt a connection to him sure he was decent looking but he wasn't the guy for me he was someone i would see as a friend to chat with but things fell apart so we dont talk.
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    (Original post by Popsiclez)
    Ok lets say you blind dated in the dark and it turns out you have fun with each other and you had a lot in common and you wanted to see him/her again, but once the lights turned on he looked "ugly" or Unattractive not minor but like Hunchback of Notre Dame Ugly, please be honest in your answers.
    IMO looks and personality are pretty inseparable. A person is all of a piece.
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    Absolutely not
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    ugly is too vague.
    how ugly are we talking? if they were slightly ugly then sure it'd be worth it if they had an awesome personality lol
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    If by 'date' you mean be friends with...



















    then no, i don't associate with uglies
 
 
 
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