I like him and he used to like me but...

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    So there was this guy who was in my class for two years,he treated really nice at
    times and I would say that we were frenemies.However,as we were considered
    close,people started rumours that we liked each other in the 2nd year.
    Subconciously I did,but I only realized it later.What I didn't know was that he
    actually did liked me then.
    In the 3rd year,we were in different form classes but had a few classes together(E.g.Math,Mother Tongue).We started drifting apart pretty much and didn't really
    talk anymore.At the start of that year was when I found out he had liked me
    before and at the same time I also realized I had liked him then.I
    started acting differently towards him and by that I mean leaving him secret gifts
    randomly.But,I was told later that he didn't like me anymore.Soon,many people
    knew about the gifts and I was basically screwed.Since then,almost everyone,
    including that guy,thought that I was trying to get into a relationship with him.
    So the problem then was actually people thinking that I was trying to get into a
    relationship with him,which I wasn't and never planned to.And I had 2 main
    questions as well:Why he liked me,and why he didn't like me anymore.
    Nearing the end of the 4th year,which is the current year,some guy told me
    something I never expected.It answered my 2nd question too.So the
    period this guy liked me,I didn't realized I was actually ignoring him.Thus,he
    thought I was rejecting him and gave up.And started hating me.We are
    graduating this year so I'm pretty clueless what to do now.
    I really want to get him to stop hating me,so please feel free to give some advice cause I have no idea what to do.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So there was this guy who was in my class for two years,he treated really nice at
    times and I would say that we were frenemies.However,as we were considered
    close,people started rumours that we liked each other in the 2nd year.
    Subconciously I did,but I only realized it later.What I didn't know was that he
    actually did liked me then.
    In the 3rd year,we were in different form classes but had a few classes together(E.g.Math,Mother Tongue).We started drifting apart pretty much and didn't really
    talk anymore.At the start of that year was when I found out he had liked me
    before and at the same time I also realized I had liked him then.I
    started acting differently towards him and by that I mean leaving him secret gifts
    randomly.But,I was told later that he didn't like me anymore.Soon,many people
    knew about the gifts and I was basically screwed.Since then,almost everyone,
    including that guy,thought that I was trying to get into a relationship with him.
    So the problem then was actually people thinking that I was trying to get into a
    relationship with him,which I wasn't and never planned to.And I had 2 main
    questions as well:Why he liked me,and why he didn't like me anymore.
    Nearing the end of the 4th year,which is the current year,some guy told me
    something I never expected.It answered my 2nd question too.So the
    period this guy liked me,I didn't realized I was actually ignoring him.Thus,he
    thought I was rejecting him and gave up.And started hating me.We are
    graduating this year so I'm pretty clueless what to do now.
    I really want to get him to stop hating me,so please feel free to give some advice cause I have no idea what to do.
    Say truth, you didn't realise etc... but slowly to give him the hint.
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    (Original post by ckfeister)
    Say truth, you didn't realise etc... but slowly to give him the hint.
    He knows I like him.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    He knows I like him.
    Maybe his just not interested.
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    Just tell him what that guy told you and how you didnt mean to ignore him and tell him you like him and want to be with him if he says no then atleast you can move on.
 
 
 
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