The Student Room Group

Bad Luck

Aight, im starting to think im one of those people who just plain and simply are just unlucky, i seem to able to screw up every relationship im in, say the wrong things at the wrong times amongst other things..

I mean lately ive been trying my luck in the field again, trying to get a gf etc and nothing seems to be happening either i get to really like em and we end up getting on well and when i go to ask them out i find out they've got a bf (happened twice now), or end up blowing it by saying something stupid without thinking.. starting to get a bit depressing cos im quite confident and seem to end up falling flat onto my face time after time.

anyone else get this, or any ideas of how to turn the luck around?
Reply 1
eh, your luck will turn around soon i guess m8y.. nothing more then that i guess.
Reply 2
Be more confident, don't come over as emotionally inept.

Have a positive attitude.

Then, luck will find you.
Trust me not so long ago I was wondering when my luck would ever change, but now i'm in a good relationship with my current girlfriend. The thing was when I got with her, at the time I wasn't actively looking for a girlfriend as such, it just happened.

Maybe if you took a step back you never know you might actually find one, important thing is not to let it bruise you long-term.
Well, if they're spoken for that's not your fault. As for sayig stupid things, stop it!

Sorted.
Reply 5
yes ma'am, i will try my best no to say stupid things, and cheers others, i think ill lay off it for a bit then and enjoy the summer
are you sure you're not being paranoid about saying stupid things. remember..noone is as harsh a judge as youself. my boy say things that are a bit odd quite a lot...i kinda like that he says them,its funny,they're funny,its a reflection of real personality. unbless of course you're spouting absolutely ridiculous nonsense in which case as someone said before...just STOP