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why do people like massages?

Riddy

I mean like as in it turns them on? I don't get it as its only a massage :confused:

Reply 1

username47781

20

Because it's relaxing.

Reply 2

Riddy

OP

yea but other relaxing stuff doesn't turn you on, like watching Tv or playing sport.

Reply 3

Leeward

Yes, but you are being touched. Why are you even asking this?

Reply 4

ForeverIsMyName

15

Massages for me are just... nice. Not sexy really, but I feel better after them.

Reply 5

Riddy

OP

Leeward

Yes, but you are being touched. Why are you even asking this?

I just wondered as I thought I was odd for hating them lol yet most find them sexually appealing

Reply 6

Krysia

8

It's the sensation of skin against skin, and exposed flesh. In the right context, it can all so easily become foreplay. Not rocket science, really (even if both deal with getting things up *boom boom*)

Reply 7

Satine

7

Riddy

I just wondered as I thought I was odd for hating them lol yet most find them sexually appealing

I hate them too. They creep me out. If you're odd, I'm just as odd as you :p:

Reply 8

yellow96

15

My mother was giving me a shoulder massage the other day because I had a stiff neck, and I kept telling her to do it harder because she was being ridiculously gentle. Eventually she told me to 'shut up and stop asking her to go harder' because I 'wasn't having sex, for Christ's sake'.

Definitely not sexy. Not anymore.

Reply 9

mrs_bellamy

18

Omg I LOVE massages. Never really understood them till the other day. Some guy from work gave me the most amaaaaazing massage. You need to find someone whos good at it, and ideally who you fancy, and it will be amazing. Its partly the touching, but also changeing the pressure, and if its standing up, being pulled against them. You've bought back good memorys. :biggrin:

Reply 10

Dionysus

15

Well if you're talking about professional massages it's because it's usually a very beautiful girl and because it tends to include a little something at the end...

Reply 11

UglyDuckling

3

I love massages .. especially if you're blind-folded.

Reply 12

Speederson

I'm not a fan of professional massages but private one's are ace. The reason for this is that during professional massages, i am very concious to not get a erection as it would be very embarrassing. Its harder than it may seem if you have an attractive woman rubbing oils on you very close to the groin area lol.

Reply 13

MurderGBush

since we're on a weird topic.

i like it when people draw with pens on my back ( with the lid on) and draw weird shapes and messages.

i like it when the woman on VM says "welcome to to 02 messaging service" - yes it turns me on.

i like it when i hear some certain types of voice that make me sleepy.

i like weed dipped in vanilla

i like it when the hairdresser cuts my hair and a bit falls on my nose and i feel like scratching it like crazy, but i cant because the cloth is holding me down, and then when my hair is done i cansit down and scratch it for a good couple of minutes.

i like the sound of people eating on my headset, and the sound of womens purses when they close ( when they close the lipstick n all that ****)

i like many things that are weird, im sure others do too, please share.

oh yes its 4:30 am... i have work 2 morw. no point sleeping really.

/WAVES GOODBYE

Reply 14

sugar-pie

Cause it feels good. It doesn't have to be a turnon. It just... makes you feel really good. Like you are floating and you could do anything because your muscles feel perfect.

Reply 15

sugar-pie

Speederson

I'm not a fan of professional massages but private one's are ace. The reason for this is that during professional massages, i am very concious to not get a erection as it would be very embarrassing. Its harder than it may seem if you have an attractive woman rubbing oils on you very close to the groin area lol.

ooh how embarrassing.

I have a (guy) friend who does really good massages, but he's pretty much like a little brother to me so it's ok :wink:

Massages are better when other people aren't looking at you though. I don't know why. Sort of the same way food is better when no one is watching you eat.

Reply 16

ßlαcksωαn

17

Riddy

I mean like as in it turns them on? I don't get it as its only a massage :confused:

Not all massages turn people on!

yea but other relaxing stuff doesn't turn you on, like watching Tv or playing sport.

Yeah they might for some, but there's a different between sitting on your ass in a hard chair watching the box and having a lovely body massage, getting your muscles rubbed down and being so relaxed you almost drift off. Ahhh I wanna massage :suith:

Reply 17

Consie

15

massages usually lead to sex if its from your g/f really, so thats why they can be good. Otherwise getting my neck massaged pisses me off.

i like it when the hairdresser cuts my hair and a bit falls on my nose and i feel like scratching it like crazy, but i cant because the cloth is holding me down, and then when my hair is done i cansit down and scratch it for a good couple of minutes.

That does my head in! Nowadays i just move my hand from under the cloth (you have to really stretch your arm to get out from under it) and itch it. I dont abide by barber shop custom; I just dont care, me. I'm mad for it.