Breaking Down

It has been nearly a year since I split up with my partner. It has not been long since I've got over this fact. I purposefully destroyed myself mentally from the inside out whilst I blamed myself for all that had happened.

It has not been until recently I've been able to over come this problem. One of the catalysts was the fact my closest friend became very close friends will my partner just after we split up causing yet more pain. However, soon after he claimed that it was nothing and that they barely spoke any more. As much as I hated to stop even their friendship, it gave me a little closure, knowing it would be another door between her and I closed.

But he lied. They're meeting up, constantly in contact, and all I feel now is the pain I felt all those months before like I haven't got over anything, like it was only yesterday she told me from over 100 miles away that it "wasn't working out".

I just don't know what to do. I'm having to resort to posting my problems online, to strangers. I'm sick and tired of everything.

I'm sorry.

Reply 1

PapeeChumo

Hi

I think it is impossible to say the right thing here as you will ony mentally move on frm your partner when you are ready but here goes.......

I would say try moving on by keeping yoursef occupied by maybe indulging in some hobbies, contacting other friends who have no contact with your partner and maybe by talking to family?