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we're really close... we did go out for like 5 months but it didnt work out but we still get along great... but recently when we meet its started getting very intimate... we both want to try it out... but is it right to do so?? do u reckon it will ruin our relationship as friends??
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If it goes pearshaped it will destroy your friendship, I really don't think it's worth the risk unless you go back to a full on relationship.
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Personal experience; I've been doing this since before Christmas, and we've not had any problems.
It could just be that we're a very lucky case though.
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It might not destory your friendship, but either one of you could get hurt.
If you want to do this then you have to be very open about what you both want. You need to state whether it's just friends with benefits or anything else, because otherwise people get confused.
Go for it, but be careful.

Never fall for a shag buddy
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General advice to live by...don't poo where you eat...i'd be very wary about doing anything if you're such close friends and it's just a shag.
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Being a mate and mating are mutually exclusive.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
we're really close... we did go out for like 5 months but it didnt work out but we still get along great... but recently when we meet its started getting very intimate... we both want to try it out... but is it right to do so?? do u reckon it will ruin our relationship as friends??
Really, don't go there, its dangerous territory, doesn't matter how close you are. If it doesn't destroy your relationship completely, things will be awkward for weeks, maybe months.
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What happens if your best friend happens to be your girlfriend
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I did it... and lost her as a freind.

Dont go there.
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Very risky if you value them as a friend...
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it depends on the people involved.

If you can both accpet that its just a bit of fun and nothing emotional gets involved with it then theres nothing wrong. Ive slept with most of my female friends in the past and had no problems with it
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Generalisations won't work, it totally depends on the people involved. So no idea.
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DONT!!!!!!! please dont lol

look at the thread i posted yesterday!!
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It might not destory your friendship, but either one of you could get hurt.
If you want to do this then you have to be very open about what you both want. You need to state whether it's just friends with benefits or anything else, because otherwise people get confused.
Go for it, but be careful.

Never fall for a shag buddy
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Generalisations won't work, it totally depends on the people involved. So no idea.
Of course, but personally I don't see how a friendship could ever be the same without being a little weird, if it is actually a good friendship. If just a random mate, maybe not so much of a problem. For me, anything I've ever had with friends which was crossing that line between friendship and something more has resulted in some sort of awkwardness...
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Sex with a best friend will destroy your friendship...it's not worth risking it unless you're sure of the consequences.
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I know people for whom it has worked, but having been there myself (mutual friends who dont know about it use TSR so posting as anon), our friendship survived but it was very awkward for a while afterwards.
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OK, I'm slightly confused. Isn't a relationship about being best friends but having sex too, if you want to? So it'd just be turned into a relationship.

But if it doesn't work out, there is no best friend there for you to pick up the pieces.
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Its not a good idea to mix friendship and sex. Sex complicates things big time.
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once you do it theres no going back. Find someone less important to shag
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