Well I have known this guy way over 10 years now and he only lives 5 mins away from me. Now when we was at uni, I studied in my home town he studied away. We would still hang out when he would come back. Now after he graduated he was working I was in my final year, and we would still hang out.
Im working full time so is he, I would still text to him to hang out and we would but for the past like 6-7months, it would be mainly me making effort to ring him. Now in the past 3 months I would ask him to come out and he would be like im busy etc.
I asked him about 4-5 times now and he would be like, im out etc, the worst was when he finished football, I asked him lets hang out, he was like ive finished football and im going home to eat, this was when I got the 'hint' I mean he could have said i'll see you after ive ate.
I thought about it and now once in like 2 months have I got a text or call saying come out.
I dont know what to do from here, it sad to think we were close at one point.
...when I could get more on benefits?