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    Today I realised that everybody I know, well most of my friends are in a relationship
    Whether its bf, engaged or married.
    I feel really lonely and I can't stop crying about this. It's on my mind lots.
    Every guy I meet is unsuitable, not deliberately being shallow but really ugly. I have quite good or above average looks, so don't get why I attract ugly people.
    There is one guy I like, but he used to by a heavy weed smoker and take other things occasionally even though he's cut down, but should I let this bother me?
    I just don't know what to do because I don't want a fling with anyone, I want something proper.
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    Maybe lower your standards a bit? I'm not saying go out with any old thing, but at least open yourself up to going on a date with someone you would usually say no to.
    Though maybe not ex weed smoker who also occasionally does other things.
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    Maybe you come across a certain way that's off putting? maybe it's even your looks in that it's harder to approach prettier girls cause all guys fear rejection


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    You are kicking yourself in the foot by not considering the uglier guys, unless looks are so paramount for you when dating.*
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    (Original post by aliman65)
    You are kicking yourself in the foot by not considering the uglier guys, unless looks are so paramount for you when dating.*
    No but I mean there really off putting, I don't feel attracted to them
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    (Original post by Pinkberry_y)
    Maybe lower your standards a bit? I'm not saying go out with any old thing, but at least open yourself up to going on a date with someone you would usually say no to.
    Though maybe not ex weed smoker who also occasionally does other things.
    I know, but he's a really lovely guy and we get on, he's cut down and he says he'll stop smoking it
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    No but I mean there really off putting, I don't feel attracted to them
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    You might be attracted to them if you gave them a chance. Why not befriend a few less attractive guys and see if you find yourself attracted to any after a while? If not then you've made a few friends in the process.*
    If it's a serious relationship you are looking for then looks shouldn't matter so much. Having complementary personalities becomes far more important in a healthy relationship as you want to be able to live alongside each other.*
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    (Original post by aliman65)
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    You might be attracted to them if you gave them a chance. Why not befriend a few less attractive guys and see if you find yourself attracted to any after a while? If not then you've made a few friends in the process.*
    If it's a serious relationship you are looking for then looks shouldn't matter so much. Having complementary personalities becomes far more important in a healthy relationship as you want to be able to live alongside each other.*
    Yeah that's true. Would you also say size matters?
 
 
 
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