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Okay i am worried about getting in trouble. I recently just turned 18 and i have been talking to a 15 year old friend of mine, i have been flirty/cheeky at times. No nudes,no sex and no kissing. I have cuddled her once. Her ex boyfriend said i was only talking to her for sex and i explained that wasnt the case. She ignored me and i asked what was was wrong she said **** off you pedo you used me for sex. I havent had sex with her but thats why she thinks i was talking to her. I did some googling and found grooming but realistically can i get in trouble i am sick with worry and i only wanted a girlfriend
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Okay i am worried about getting in trouble. I recently just turned 18 and i have been talking to a 15 year old friend of mine, i have been flirty/cheeky at times. No nudes,no sex and no kissing. I have cuddled her once. Her ex boyfriend said i was only talking to her for sex and i explained that wasnt the case. She ignored me and i asked what was was wrong she said **** off you pedo you used me for sex. I havent had sex with her but thats why she thinks i was talking to her. I did some googling and found grooming but realistically can i get in trouble i am sick with worry and i only wanted a girlfriend
How is giving someone a hug offensive? I don't understand why they made a huge problem out of a hug/greeting thing.
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You said you only want a girlfriend? So you did want her for sex then amongst other things. Because surely a part of "wanting a girlfriend" is wanting sex?

You did nothing wrong. Luckily. But you clearly did have romantic intentions towards this girl, and she is 15.... So luckily for you it ended quick, otherwise you could have ended up in **** street.
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Okay i am worried about getting in trouble. I recently just turned 18 and i have been talking to a 15 year old friend of mine, i have been flirty/cheeky at times. No nudes,no sex and no kissing. I have cuddled her once. Her ex boyfriend said i was only talking to her for sex and i explained that wasnt the case. She ignored me and i asked what was was wrong she said **** off you pedo you used me for sex. I havent had sex with her but thats why she thinks i was talking to her. I did some googling and found grooming but realistically can i get in trouble i am sick with worry and i only wanted a girlfriend
I doubt you'll get into trouble and you haven't done anything.

Just don't talk or see her again.
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She sounds too immature for you to care. Just move on, she might be the manipulative type so stay away.
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youve done nothing legally wrong so youre fine
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So... You're an 18 year old dating 15 year olds, eh?

Here's my advice: Don't. Little bit creepy and I'm judging you at this moment, Anon.
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A bit lol, but seriously, screenshot every conversation you've ever had with her and store them in case you get in trouble down the line.
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(Original post by Twinpeaks)
You said you only want a girlfriend? So you did want her for sex then amongst other things. Because surely a part of "wanting a girlfriend" is wanting sex?

You did nothing wrong. Luckily. But you clearly did have romantic intentions towards this girl, and she is 15.... So luckily for you it ended quick, otherwise you could have ended up in **** street.
well in his post he says
she said **** off you pedo you used me for sex.
so she's either lying or there was sex involved?
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(Original post by ThatOldGuy)
So... You're an 18 year old dating 15 year olds, eh?

Here's my advice: Don't. Little bit creepy and I'm judging you at this moment, Anon.
I havent dated any just met her through friends, i considered her my friend though i was flirty/cheeky but i am just like that
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she is technically under 18 so you shouldn't have even been 'flirty/cheeky' because that's a little concerning. it's a good thing it's over, really, you could've gotten into a lot of trouble if the authorities found out you were 'flirting' with a child.
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(Original post by Ciel.)
well in his post he says
she said **** off you pedo you used me for sex.
so she's either lying or there was sex involved?
No shr means i was only talking to her for sex. I explained i werent and her ex was lying and now shes being weird. I honestly aint done anythiny with her
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On a serious note why were you talking to a 15 year old? The majority are still quite immature.
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No shr means i was only talking to her for sex. I explained i werent and her ex was lying and now shes being weird. I honestly aint done anythiny with her
stil its strange that she'd say something like that. you really should just back off before she falsely accuses you of rape or something
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(Original post by Ciel.)
well in his post he says
she said **** off you pedo you used me for sex.
so she's either lying or there was sex involved?
No, she's saying that he was only interested in her for sex. And tell me if I'm wrong, but is that entirely false? He explicitly said on here that "he only wanted a girlfriend". So a part of him did want to have sex with her...
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A bit lol, but seriously, screenshot every conversation you've ever had with her and store them in case you get in trouble down the line.
I cant i deleted everything but it wasnt i wanna **** or anything just like saying she should take me out and i called her pretty for example.
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I havent dated any just met her through friends, i considered her my friend though i was flirty/cheeky but i am just like that
If that's the case then why did you say "I only wanted a girlfriend".

I'm sorry but it is quite creepy.

(Original post by Anonymous)
Okay i am worried about getting in trouble. I recently just turned 18 and i have been talking to a 15 year old friend of mine, i have been flirty/cheeky at times. No nudes,no sex and no kissing. I have cuddled her once. Her ex boyfriend said i was only talking to her for sex and i explained that wasnt the case. She ignored me and i asked what was was wrong she said **** off you pedo you used me for sex. I havent had sex with her but thats why she thinks i was talking to her. I did some googling and found grooming but realistically can i get in trouble i am sick with worry and i only wanted a girlfriend
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oh well, best you can do is very subtly try and get her to say that it's all cool on a conv and screen shot that and guard it with your life.
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(Original post by Twinpeaks)
No, she's saying that he was only interested in her for sex. And tell me if I'm wrong, but is that entirely false? He explicitly said on here that "he only wanted a girlfriend". So a part of him did want to have sex with her...
No i want someone to spent time with and care about me/cuddle. If its for sex i talk to girls over 16 and you can tell the difference by how i talk to them
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