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    I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and i'm madly in love with him, for a fairly new relationship we've been through a hell of a lot together! For the first few months of our relationship I had mega trust issues however as the year has passed I've learnt to trust him more. He was out of college for a while but is back. However, he is in a different college than me and the worries are starting to creep back into my head. He has trust issues about me too and although we're open about these things and discuss them and reassure eachother I just can't get rid of this feeling that he flirts with girls in college. He's a very charming person and sometimes I guess that could be seen as flirting. I don't really know what the point of this post was really, I love him more than anything and I want to marry him and he feels the same way but I don't know what to do about these worries
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    dont trust boys they are all horrible
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    dont trust boys they are all horrible
    I speak on behalf of all men on this earth when I say this: Oi!
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    lol its good to worry, shows that u care.
    showing him u worry shows that you care.
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    I think you know what to do here, you're just seeking validation from others. If you guys cant trust one another even after discussing your fears with each other, i dont see how you can have a healthy relationship..
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    Don't forget the worries. Figure out exactly why you fear infidelity. This can be through introspection or through talking it through. It may be due to insecurities in yourself, e.g. you don't feel you're good enough for him or w/e. Figure out what the problem is, be it with yourself or with him, and then ask how to fix it.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    dont trust boys they are all horrible
    yeah but they cute sometimes
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    dont trust boys they are all horrible
    Yes, boys are horrible, but men are not.
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    (Original post by UWS)
    Yes, boys are horrible, but men are not.
    Men are pigs. Gentlemen are where it's at. *tip*
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    (Original post by AlexLawrence1453)
    Men are pigs. Gentlemen are where it's at. *tip*
    Pigs know how to eat though
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    (Original post by MagnetoWasRight)
    Pigs know how to eat though
    Anything and everything?
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    (Original post by AlexLawrence1453)
    Anything and everything?
    Especially the pussy
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    (Original post by MagnetoWasRight)
    Especially the pussy
    :eating:
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    (Original post by AlexLawrence1453)
    :eating:
    cover it in sauce first
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    (Original post by AlexLawrence1453)
    Don't forget the worries. Figure out exactly why you fear infidelity. This can be through introspection or through talking it through. It may be due to insecurities in yourself, e.g. you don't feel you're good enough for him or w/e. Figure out what the problem is, be it with yourself or with him, and then ask how to fix it.
    Prsom...you had a good point!!
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    (Original post by MagnetoWasRight)
    cover it in sauce first
    Hope she's packing the secret sauce because I'm not using mine.
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    She put the pussy on me but she ain't my boo
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    (Original post by AlexLawrence1453)
    Hope she's packing the secret sauce because I'm not using mine.
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    She put the pussy on me but she ain't my boo
    If you give her a fake name and don't tell her wear you live, can she claim child support?
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    (Original post by MagnetoWasRight)
    If you give her a fake name and don't tell her wear you live, can she claim child support?
    Fam I cycle and cook I'm not going to be fertile by the time I'm 30
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    (Original post by MagnetoWasRight)
    If you give her a fake name and don't tell her wear you live, can she claim child support?
    (Original post by AlexLawrence1453)
    Fam I cycle and cook I'm not going to be fertile by the time I'm 30
    omg :rofl:
    Officially dead
    #ripCheese
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    (Original post by AlexLawrence1453)
    Fam I cycle and cook I'm not going to be fertile by the time I'm 30
    Pardon my ignorance, but how does cooking harm your fertility?
 
 
 
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