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threesome problem (18+)
i had always thought i'd be up for a threesome, it's always appealed to me, seemed kinda kinky, and when my boyfriend told me it was one of his fantasies, i surprised him by letting him know it was one of mine too.
although we're only 19 years old, we're pretty mature as a couple (sharing things, trust, honesty, and even sexually - we're very open about things we like/don't like, how we work sexually together), we did think we were too young and so finding someone to do it with us would be hard at this age.
in the end, about 4 weeks ago, we went to cornwall together and met a guy who was really laid back, carefree, and good looking. he was 20 and one drunken night, we all told each other about our threesome fantasy, and he seemed really up for it. so later that evening, things got a bit steamy, and even though we were all a bit drunk, i wasn't drunk enough not to remember or know what i did, or what happened.
thing is... he spent most of the time with the other guy. and it got me thinking... is he gay?? he seemed more excited by the prospect of sucking this randomer off than having sex with me... am i just being paranoid???
there was one point where he even said to the guy, put it in me... and then he got my hand and started to want me to toss him off, but nothing was being done to me, and the guy and my boyfriend were really enjoying themselves, and they kept eye contact for quite a while during the oral between just the two of them (while i was just pulling the guy). i really felt like my input was minor, and afterwards, we all just fell asleep drunkenly. in the morning, the guy left, and it wasn't awkward at all, and my boyfriend acted the same towards me, and said how he really enjoyed himself and glad we did it. and i know he loves me and everything, but i'd never really asked him about other guys and homosexuality before, so all of this is completely new to me and a bit of a shock.
has anyone else ever experienced this before?? what should i do/say if anything?
although we're only 19 years old, we're pretty mature as a couple (sharing things, trust, honesty, and even sexually - we're very open about things we like/don't like, how we work sexually together), we did think we were too young and so finding someone to do it with us would be hard at this age.
in the end, about 4 weeks ago, we went to cornwall together and met a guy who was really laid back, carefree, and good looking. he was 20 and one drunken night, we all told each other about our threesome fantasy, and he seemed really up for it. so later that evening, things got a bit steamy, and even though we were all a bit drunk, i wasn't drunk enough not to remember or know what i did, or what happened.
thing is... he spent most of the time with the other guy. and it got me thinking... is he gay?? he seemed more excited by the prospect of sucking this randomer off than having sex with me... am i just being paranoid???
there was one point where he even said to the guy, put it in me... and then he got my hand and started to want me to toss him off, but nothing was being done to me, and the guy and my boyfriend were really enjoying themselves, and they kept eye contact for quite a while during the oral between just the two of them (while i was just pulling the guy). i really felt like my input was minor, and afterwards, we all just fell asleep drunkenly. in the morning, the guy left, and it wasn't awkward at all, and my boyfriend acted the same towards me, and said how he really enjoyed himself and glad we did it. and i know he loves me and everything, but i'd never really asked him about other guys and homosexuality before, so all of this is completely new to me and a bit of a shock.
has anyone else ever experienced this before?? what should i do/say if anything?
And you thought you'd have both men for yourself !
Ok. Bit of a sticky wicket here. Well...sexual activities with some one of your own gender is usual, I'd have thought in a threesome. At least one person in a threesome would be bisexual I'd have thought, else it'd be even weirder.
Ok. Bit of a sticky wicket here. Well...sexual activities with some one of your own gender is usual, I'd have thought in a threesome. At least one person in a threesome would be bisexual I'd have thought, else it'd be even weirder.
yeah, but i'm quite a jealous person and i did tell him i'd feel odd if it were another girl but he said he didn't mind either way, though he never showed signs of particular excitement when i mentioned i'd rather a guy...
Ahh, another "I-didn't-get-double-penetrated-when-I-thought-I-would-and-my-boyfriend-is gay" thread...
Oooooollddd.
Oooooollddd.
Um... I'm pretty sure that in a female-male-male threesome both guys service the female. I'm sure it doesn't involve one guy sucking the other guy off. That's certainly gay behaviour.
If I was in a threesome I certainly wouldn't suck the guy off, no matter how "into it" I was.
If I was in a threesome I certainly wouldn't suck the guy off, no matter how "into it" I was.
i'm really into the idea of spit-roasting though (is that nasty??), and it never happened... i'm not so good an initiating things, but i really thought it would happen...
polkadotcat
yeah, but i'm quite a jealous person and i did tell him i'd feel odd if it were another girl but he said he didn't mind either way, though he never showed signs of particular excitement when i mentioned i'd rather a guy...
Jealous and selfish? You wanted both of them to go for you ?
To answer your question - yes, he's probably gay.
Whoa I would have felt like such a plum. No offence.
ALTHOUGH some guys prefer, (or have the theory, atleast) that getting head is better from another guy because they know how to do it properly. I'm not saying your **** @ giving head, but maybe it was just THAT good he couldn't help but get turned on.
ALTHOUGH some guys prefer, (or have the theory, atleast) that getting head is better from another guy because they know how to do it properly. I'm not saying your **** @ giving head, but maybe it was just THAT good he couldn't help but get turned on.
The_Adarshster
Jealous and selfish? You wanted both of them to go for you ?
To answer your question - yes, he's probably gay.
To answer your question - yes, he's probably gay.
Like the perfect wedding, kids names and idyllic proposal, I think all girls know that they want to experience the legendary Eiffel Tower.
Your boyfriend sounds proper gay! I don't want a threesome with another guy but if it happened I wouldn't be touching him at all.
MFF is what I want
If you have girl friend, I show you good time lol.
But yeah, I'd say your boyfriend is pretty gay. And that's the problem with threesomes. Unequal distribution of pleasure.
MFF is what I want
If you have girl friend, I show you good time
lol.But yeah, I'd say your boyfriend is pretty gay. And that's the problem with threesomes. Unequal distribution of pleasure.
polkadotcat
he seemed more excited by the prospect of sucking this randomer off than having sex with me... am i just being paranoid???
this is possibly the funniest string of words i've ever read
edit: infact, its so much that you've just been sigged.
k77
The guy was gay. Three-some? And he is going lad on lad - are you for real?
ForeverIsMyName
Ahh, another "I-didn't-get-double-penetrated-when-I-thought-I-would-and-my-boyfriend-is gay" thread...
Oooooollddd.
Oooooollddd.
I cannot believe after re-reading that I posted here lol.
MO - sounds like your boyfriend had a good time, you should talk to him and ask him if he is comfortable with guy on guy and girl on girl - he sounds bisexual but then again I dont know him aswell as you - sorry ive never had a threesome - I know how they work though. I would not call that a decent one. They both should have left you crippling
that's not to say i wasn't sore after hehe... but yeah i think i should talk to him, though it was about 4 weeks ago, and things have been pretty normal since then. and i know the "distribution of pleasure" can be unequal nearly all the time in threesomes, maybe i just thought it would be like a porn movie and got too excited thinking it would exceed my expectations as opposed to really not! and at least this guy wasn't someone we were friends with, it would have been a whole different thing then...
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