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My boyfriend is at uni and I'm struggling to cope

Hi, looking for some advice, anything would help right now.

My boyfriend has moved away to uni (second year) so by now I should be used to it... But I'm really not. I miss him even more than I did and I feel like I'm going to ruin the relationship because I am constantly sad. I don't want to ruin his time at uni and I don't want him to start getting fed up of me...

We've been together 3 1/2 years but I feel like I need someone who is near,

HELP :frown:
Reply 1
am i mean if i tell u to get a new one?
Original post by Rhaenys10
am i mean if i tell u to get a new one?


You make it sound like she's gonna go out and get a new pair of shoes
Original post by TSR Mustafa
You make it sound like she's gonna go out and get a new pair of shoes


you got me
idk long distance relationships suck, but she's already been with him like this for quite a long time soo
Original post by Rhaenys10
you got me
idk long distance relationships suck, but she's already been with him like this for quite a long time soo


Yeah i have no experience whatsoever with this , im just here to annoy people.
Reply 6


He knows but he just thinks it will work, he has a new life at uni and stuff to distract him... I dedicate my weekends to see him... Just don't know what else I can do
Original post by littlexox
He knows but he just thinks it will work, he has a new life at uni and stuff to distract him... I dedicate my weekends to see him... Just don't know what else I can do


i think it's a bit unfair
you just said you dedicate your weekends to seeing him
what's he doing? having fun at uni and also keeping the sweet gf at home
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i could also be completely wrong
Reply 8
Original post by Rhaenys10
i think it's a bit unfair
you just said you dedicate your weekends to seeing him
what's he doing? having fun at uni and also keeping the sweet gf at home
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i could also be completely wrong


No, he is having fun in the week I guess but he's at uni to do that. I feel like I am letting him down because I want him to be home, :/
Original post by littlexox
No, he is having fun in the week I guess but he's at uni to do that. I feel like I am letting him down because I want him to be home, :/


and is he affected at all by the situation?
Reply 10
Original post by Rhaenys10
and is he affected at all by the situation?


Initially, but he settles and is fine
Reply 11
Why dont you move to his place, if love is so strong.
Love yourself and spend time on your own. Let him miss you
Reply 13
Original post by agrew
Why dont you move to his place, if love is so strong.


I'm at a different uni living at home :/ trust me I'd love to do that

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