What to do?

I really like this guy, in fact I can't get him out of my head and it's annoying me so much. I don't know what to do and I'm so confused about him.

Basically we have been seeing each other but recently his contact has dwindled completely. I saw him out on Saturday, I was drunk and he was sober and I think I may have done something stupid but I cannot remember the situation at all. Since then I haven't heard anything from him, was expecting a text the next day but got nothing. I don't know whether to text him and apologise.

I'm so confused, all my friends tell me that he really likes me and he talks to them about me but his actions towards me say completely the opposite. My friends keep reassuring me that he likes me, so why can't he show me himself?

Reply 1

Jsk

First, was anyone there that you could ask what you did? If so ask them before you go apolagising.

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

Nope it was just me at that point which is even worse!

Reply 3

PatchTheCatch

Well just go about it in a subtle way, you never know. Isn't it better to take the risk and find out nothing could happen than leave it and find out something could of happened?
Go for it but as I said don't just like come at him like a rocket just kinda get him alone, chat with him, get cozy, and after a moments silence just kinda explain how you feel, if he's an honest guy and does like you brilliant ^^ if he's an honest guy and doens't like you, he'll be able to make you feel fine about it anyway.
To be honest any girl that has the balls (not literally of course) to talk to the guy first, automatically goes up in my honour system because I think a girl making the first move is much braver therefor is a much better relationship prospect ^^ Gah talking about relationships like they are statistics that's so wrong.
But aye go fer it lassy

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

Hey thanks for you replies. I can't ask him face to face because I won't see him until September now. Do you think asking him over the phone or by text would be ok?

Reply 5

PatchTheCatch

Why can't you see him face to face?

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

I'm home from uni over the summer, I went back on Saturday for a night out. The next time I'm able to go back will be September.

Reply 7

PatchTheCatch

Hmm well I dunno it's always best to do stuff face to face, but if you can't mebbe it's worth ringing him and kinda telling him half the story?

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

Yeah, I would have thought he would contact me by now - at least asking If I had a good night which is why i'm thinking I done something bad. I don't want to risk contacting him when I should be taking a hint.

Reply 9

PatchTheCatch

Screw hints if you've done somethjing wrong it's your right to know and to be allowed to apologise ^^ anyhow maybe you can't remember because you didn't do nout and he's just being a jerk, or has no credit or something ^^ many possibilities