Boyfriend troubles

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now (since I was 14). The time we spend together is always great and we still love each other very much.

However whenever I go out with my mates and there are boys there he makes a huge fuss and asks me loads of questions about we're doing (via text.

I don't know what to do, I'm thinking of leaving him as I'm just not happy at the moment, but I still love him and like I said, any time I spend with him is always nice, it's just when I'm not with him.

Any advice would be greatly appretiated, thanks in advance x

Reply 1

I_am_the_mob

1

I would talk to him about it first, he may not realise it bothers you so much

Reply 2

sam_sam

I wouldn't rush into anything based on just one problem (not that i'm trivialising it or anything), but if you haven't talked to him about it, he hasn't had chance to address the problem... he probably doesnt even know that there is one! (men, pah) also, maybe you could ask him not to text you at all when you're out with your friends, you may find that you miss his attention. otherwise, reassure him that you love him etc, because he's probably only texting so much because a) you're out without him so he misses you, or b) he needs reassurance that you won't stray.

why don't you take him out a few times with your usual croud of lads, so he can see for himself that there's no funny business going on?

hope this helps! sam xxxx

Reply 3

lilac!!

15

I would talk to him and probabaly explain that you do love him and you wouldnt cheat on him (if you feel strongly about that of course) if he still continues then tell him you dont like being questioned.

Reply 4

Jsk

1

Dont dump him just yet. He just asks you what you are doing. Tell him that you dont like it. Chances are that he doesnt know hes annoying you. If you love him this is a silly thing to through you relationship away.

JUst ahve a chat to him. Sort it out its not a big thing to sort out.

Reply 5

username47781

20

Tell him that you are with him because you love him then tell him you don't like the fact he keeps asking all these questions. If he doesn't trust you then the relationship will not work.

Reply 6

Profesh

20

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