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    Recently started uni and living on campus with 11 other people, out of which there are only 8 social ones (one of which is me). No matter how hard I try they always seem to leave me out and go out without me and even have a separate group chat which I am not included in and also talk about sending things in the group chat, thinking that I can't hear them. It is getting to the point where I can't stand living in this flat because they have formed their own group and do things without me and I have no idea as to what to do as I have tried to talk to them and join in with whatever they are doing, but I am just being ignored like right now they have all gone out and I have no idea where and they didn't even think to ask me
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    (Original post by rubyamelia)
    Recently started uni and living on campus with 11 other people, out of which there are only 8 social ones (one of which is me). No matter how hard I try they always seem to leave me out and go out without me and even have a separate group chat which I am not included in and also talk about sending things in the group chat, thinking that I can't hear them. It is getting to the point where I can't stand living in this flat because they have formed their own group and do things without me and I have no idea as to what to do as I have tried to talk to them and join in with whatever they are doing, but I am just being ignored like right now they have all gone out and I have no idea where and they didn't even think to ask me
    Honestly they sound really horrible and I wouldn't waste any more breath on them. I would try and see if you can make friends outside your flat- knock on other doors, talk to people on your course, join a society, hopefully then you might find some friends.
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    You made a post like this earlier and you said they found you annoying, so stop being annoying and problem solved
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    They probably don't like you. Find other friends that like you.
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    We're they including you before and then something changed? It seems like they are upset about something (maybe there was a fight someone is still reflecting on) I would be really upfront and ask them exactly what happened, maybe there is a way you can apologise to get on good terms again. Good luck!
    (Original post by rubyamelia)
    Recently started uni and living on campus with 11 other people, out of which there are only 8 social ones (one of which is me). No matter how hard I try they always seem to leave me out and go out without me and even have a separate group chat which I am not included in and also talk about sending things in the group chat, thinking that I can't hear them. It is getting to the point where I can't stand living in this flat because they have formed their own group and do things without me and I have no idea as to what to do as I have tried to talk to them and join in with whatever they are doing, but I am just being ignored like right now they have all gone out and I have no idea where and they didn't even think to ask me
 
 
 
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