Is this a sign that he's not interested?

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    So today I saw a guy that is meant to like me a lot checking out another girl. Does this mean he isn't actually interested in me or is this just me overreacting? Any advice would be appreciated
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    If it looks like this, then yes:

    https://www.fabu-licious.com/media/c...d-sign-5_2.jpg
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    even ppl who are in committed relationships check out other ppl don't worry
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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    even ppl who are in committed relationships check out other ppl don't worry
    Yeah I guess. He did look at her more than once though but his behaviour towards me hasn't changed so idk
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yeah I guess. He did look at her more than once though but his behaviour towards me hasn't changed so idk
    meh u should still do sth about it
    if he does like you, it ain't gonna last forever
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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    meh u should still do sth about it
    if he does like you, it ain't gonna last forever
    I know I really should but seeing that he was looking at another girl freaked me out and I dont know what to do about it
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    Anyone else?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So today I saw a guy that is meant to like me a lot checking out another girl. Does this mean he isn't actually interested in me or is this just me overreacting? Any advice would be appreciated
    You are overreacting everyone likes to do a bit of window shopping regardless if they liked you or with you. Just cause he was checking out someone might not mean he wants to be with her we all find others attractive but dosent mean we want to be with them.
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    afaik most people look at other folk even when they particularly fancy one person. It doesn't affect his feelings toward you.
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    Was he with you at the time or are you looking at pics on facebook? If he was checking out somebody else while with you, it suggests... Absolutely nothing. Or it might suggest something. We'd need to see what happened because vague descriptions are impossible to guess at.

    If he was with you, whistled at another girl and said, "Dang, girl. Bring summa that over here." while he was with you, you are probably in the friend zone.
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    (Original post by ThatOldGuy)
    Was he with you at the time or are you looking at pics on facebook? If he was checking out somebody else while with you, it suggests... Absolutely nothing. Or it might suggest something. We'd need to see what happened because vague descriptions are impossible to guess at.

    If he was with you, whistled at another girl and said, "Dang, girl. Bring summa that over here." while he was with you, you are probably in the friend zone.
    We were at the same event but we were standing with separate friends when I saw him turn his head to check her out and then he looked at her again later on as well but that was more of a glance than checking out that time
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    (Original post by Retired_Messiah)
    afaik most people look at other folk even when they particularly fancy one person. It doesn't affect his feelings toward you.
    Thanks that's made me feel better

    (Original post by chikane)
    You are overreacting everyone likes to do a bit of window shopping regardless if they liked you or with you. Just cause he was checking out someone might not mean he wants to be with her we all find others attractive but dosent mean we want to be with them.
    Thank you
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    Guys will naturally check out a good looking girl, you even sometimes get guys with girlfriends who do that
 
 
 
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