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How can I be a leader amongst my friend group/s

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    (Original post by SuperHuman98)
    How
    Earn respect, don't be a fool, don't laugh too much, don't make stupid jokes and let them follow you around.
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    u already are
    ur a super human
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    You tell them you have 9 gems on TSR
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    you should read the threads about alphas... there are quite a lot of 'em on tsr
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    Well the thing about "leadership" is that you don't usually attain it within your friend group; you just continue to socialise with people and pick up more responsibilities. Then people will feel you are strong enough to be a leader of some sort
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    Be an alpha
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    be a b*tchy mother figure, thats what i am apparently
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    Establish yourself as someone not to be f***ed with.
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    (Original post by Nirvana1989-1994)
    Establish yourself as someone not to be f***ed with.
    u really took this seriously?))
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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    u really took this seriously?))
    That's how I became the leader of my friends.
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    (Original post by Nirvana1989-1994)
    That's how I became the leader of my friends.
    i think that may have more to do with your own personality
    some ppl just aren't born to be leaders
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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    i think that may have more to do with your own personality
    some ppl just aren't born to be leaders
    I didn't really haha. I have different groups of friends that don't necessarily know each other, although, I guess I'd say I'm the 'leader' of my main friendship group.

    And, I guess being the firstborn in my family helps haha.
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    (Original post by Nirvana1989-1994)
    I didn't really haha. I have different groups of friends that don't necessarily know each other, although, I guess I'd say I'm the 'leader' of my main friendship group.

    And, I guess being the firstborn in my family helps haha.
    yeah it does.. i m also the big sis
    idk for it was a case of being the most extroverted person in the group every single time=))
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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    yeah it does.. i m also the big sis
    idk for it was a case of being the most extroverted person in the group every single time=))
    Lucky haha. I'm kind of introverted, but can be very extroverted if I'm with those kind of people
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    (Original post by Nirvana1989-1994)
    Lucky haha. I'm kind of introverted, but can be very extroverted if I'm with those kind of people
    meh being extroverted may have quite a lot of perks but it also sucks at times
    like ... it got me into trouble pretty often, not to mention that such a personality usually comes with a hot temper..which leads, once again, to quite a lot of trouble
    =)))

    #alpha*****es
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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    meh being extroverted may have quite a lot of perks but it also sucks at times
    like ... it got me into trouble pretty often, not to mention that such a personality usually comes with a hot temper..which leads, once again, to quite a lot of trouble
    =)))

    #alpha*****es
    True haha. Being introverted when I was at school certainly helped me from getting into a lot of trouble haha. Now is different, especially with the famalam.
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    (Original post by Nirvana1989-1994)
    True haha. Being introverted when I was at school certainly helped me from getting into a lot of trouble haha. Now is different, especially with the famalam.
    ikr)
 
 
 
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