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I am a 17 year old girl at college, not being big headed but im one of the best looking girls in my year and i havn't had a boyfriend for 3 years. When im out people ask for my number and that but there like in their 20's and i want some one my own age. I dont realy know many lads in my year and they all seem pally with one group of girls who to be honest lookwise dont realy seem to stand out from the crowd! there was one realy fit lad who kept making eye contact with me and when i looked over he was looking too but it never went further! I thought we'd probly talk at a party but we dont know each other so would be hard to get a conversation going! :frown:

its raly annoying as i realy like him and think he likes me 2!
Ive never realy been that bothered about if i had a boyfriend or nor before as im realy busy with sports !

can anyone shed some light on my problems

Reply 1

herecomestrouble

14

maybe try and socialise more with people your own age? so rather than going to a club/ bar where there are generally older people maybe just try and socialise with friends of friends and go to partys etc.
with this guy i reckon you should start a conversation! you've got nothing to lose and especially iff you say you are good looking, and why not talk to him about your sports or something?
good luck with it, dont get lonely :hugs:

Reply 2

lookoutapiano!

if you are particularly good looking maybe its that lads your age are intimidated and think they dont stand a chance with you which is why its mainly confident older lads that have been coming onto you. maybe you should try making the first move! :smile:

Reply 3

ßlαcksωαn

17

You could be the hottest girl in school, but if you are a total bitch ofcourse noone is going to want you. Perhaps get over your self. Your standards are probably way too high anyway because you are soooo sexy :rolleyes:

Reply 4

paperclip

18

make a move on him if you like him dear
waiting for the guy to make the first move is stupid, we're not as difficult as you think :P
and if your as fit as you say he'll feel great about himself and probably say yes
wait too long and he'll find someone else

as its been said, people might be too intimidated to make a move...

Reply 5

sugar-pie

Talk to the guy! No kidding, he's probably hoping you'll make a move if he likes you! Then again... eye contact can be pretty misleading. He might have been accidentally looking at you and his brain was off in lala land and then he realized he was looking at you etc... you get the picture. But seriously, don't be afraid to talk to him.

Reply 6

em1n3m

people might be intimidated by your looks; show everyone that you're like all the rest and just as friendly by starting conversations with them, and you could even talk about sports or something you like, good luck wth it :smile:

Reply 7

username47781

20

blackswan

You could be the hottest girl in school, but if you are a total bitch ofcourse noone is going to want you. Perhaps get over your self. Your standards are probably way too high anyway because you are soooo sexy :rolleyes:

Exactly, you might be good looking but if you are arrogant at the same time, I wouldn't go near you.

Reply 8

KinkayGema

11

Rock Fan

Exactly, you might be good looking but if you are arrogant at the same time, I wouldn't go near you.

Maybe the guys have heard things about you that they don't like?? Looks aren't everything but you seem to think it what the world revolves around!

Reply 9

User69701

10

Approach the guy. We looooove that!

Reply 10

Holty-Dave

13

I think the reason why you don't get approached is because you 'know your hot' so I guess you kinda give off the impression you think you're too good for whoever and it just puts them off. Guys don't like rejection lol